Help...guy problems...?

Question

this year, my boyfriend and i are in totally different high schools. we're in nearby towns and live right near each other though. I only get to see him on weekends, and vacations...like 1 time a month. the problem is, his best friends (also mine) hit on me. They grab my ****, and hit on me all the time. i've got eight boys hitting on me, not including him. whenever i tell him about what they are doing, he does nothing. We've been going out for just over 1 year, and i would be devastated if we broke up. His friends won't stop when i tell them to, and the teachers at school do nothing. Also, my parents won't let me kiss him...Please help!

Answer 1

Your boyfriend is a wimp..he should b sticking up for you..these boys are sexually harassing u....the same thing happened to me and i did nothing because I was ashamed but now I wish i had the chance again because I would have kicked them hard between the legs...sort yourself out and stick up for yourself..and your parents cant stop you kissing him because they are not joined to your hip.

Answer 2

If some guy grabs your a&&, grab him by the hair and sneer at him, 'If you ever do that again, I'll call the police, you scumbag!' He will either get mad - in which case, go face to face with him and tell him that's a promise, not a threat. Mean it! He may laugh and everyone around may laugh. Not funny, but that will be their nervous reaction.
Your boyfriend's a wuss and you should tell him so and get good and angry at him for being such a wussy. He's more afraid of speaking up to his friends than protecting you. If someone grabs your a&&, it's their way of proving they can touch you anyway they want, without punishment or criticism. You aren't a piece of meat to be prodded.
You'd be devastated if you broke up with this boyfriend? Well, be devastated. He's not living up to the role of boyfriend which would mean showing that he likes you and definitely he doesn't like you more than his friends.
The teachers at school do nothing but if you go to a guidance counselor, say you want to complain formally and 'make it stick' - do whatever is necessary. It's always good to write out exactly what happens on paper, list names, give it to the guidance counselor who will have to keep it on file, and keep doing it every time it happens until it stops! The guidance counselor will have to contact parents and there will be a record of what happened.
This crowd of bullies will continue to be just that - and maybe hit on some other unsuspecting female when they have the chance - as long as you let them do it to you.
Get mad! Get strong! Give your boyfriend a chance by telling him to 'grow a pair' and if he can't, then you walk. And then do it.
End of problem.
By the way, are you so insecure that you think no other boy can like you and you will never like another boy? Is that what underlies this situation of being the sexual playtoy for a bunch of boys? Then address that, too. You need to respect yourself more.

Answer 3

It could mean that he thinks that he friends are joking around, and that they don't mean anything. He's not doing anything because he knows that you like him and not the other guys. He feels that he can trust you when you are around other guys that hit on you. It's like a test to see if you can be faithful in the long run. Just keep telling the guys that hit on you that your NOT interested.

Answer 4

you dont have to break up with him at first. just tell him that you might have to break up him if he doesnt do anything about it, and then if he realy cares for you then he will at least try to do something......and if not.....you might have to break up with him. you might be devastated but it will be the right thing to do

Answer 5

don't let them sexually abuse you. FYI why the **** doesn't your bf do soemthing about it. it's his friends. Either he is to chicken **** to do soemthing about it or he seriously doesn't give a **** about you.

Answer 6

he's a pri
lol