my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month now..
we had dry sex.
well.. i wasn't .. like.. horny or nothing.. just.. i was just kissing him.
he started to have dry sex with me..
he said that i could say stop when i want him to stop.
this is my first boyfriend. HES experienced and he turns me on like crazy.
except this time i am not proud of what i did.
i feel like everytime i see him i have to kiss him-- ever since our first kiss. I don't know what's wrong with me.
2007-03-23 11:24:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are following your biological imperative....falling in love.
Also you have told yourself that you believe you would never do something like this. But now you are and you like it and it is causing cognitive dissonance, so you have to rationalize to yourself why you are behaving in a way you didn't think you would. Enjoy it.
Also, If he is willing to stop at dry sex if you say so than he respects you. This is good.
2007-03-23 11:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake and are feeling guilty. Hopefully this is a lesson well learned. It is premature to be having sex at this time in your relationship. You need to get to know each other before getting into the sex thing. Have you thought about the possibilities of disease? Hopefully, you can go forward and get to know this person for sometime before getting into dangerous situations. Good luck.
2007-03-23 11:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal.....just don't let his experience overpower your inexperience. It's okay to be nervous and it's okay to feel weird, just remember that you need to be aware of your true feelings at all times. Dont have sex or "dry" sex with him just because you feel obligated. If you don't want to or are not in the mood then just say "no". If he gets angry then you deserve a lot better honey. Dont allow him to intimidate you or make you feel small. Just relax and what happens will happen. Just dont freak out, and remember its okay to say no.
2007-03-23 11:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have felt a little pressured to let him do this. Talk to him and let him know that you are not ready to go to that level. If you feel ashamed of what you did then explain that you are not comfortable with this stuff right now. If he is a good guy he will understand. Your not a ****. Good Luck!!
2007-03-23 11:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dry sex? ouch
2007-03-23 11:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl chill nothings wrong with you your love him next time just get in the bed and have sex with him having sex wid your bf is really fun espectillyy wen your turned on and high hope dis helps
2007-03-23 11:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i wouldnt feel like you HAVE to do anything
if you feel uncomfortable i would try to avoid the situation
it may be hard but you need to be able to feel confident with what you do and how you handle yourself
2007-03-23 11:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you better look out. you do don't want to win a baby. he should respect you more. a month is not that long. its your first b/f chill out.
2007-03-23 11:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by tweed801 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is "dry sex" ?
Try it wet, it's a lot better...
Nothing is wrong with you...
2007-03-23 11:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its normal, you like the idea of having a boyfriend, thats why.
And i also think ur in love with him!♥
2007-03-23 11:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋