this guy cheated on me with two other girls
so why r guys such jerks
2007-03-23 11:23:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the time they were born they all were bound to be a jerk or a$$ hole
2007-03-23 11:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would not let one immature guy change your perception of men. There will come a point where all his actions will follow him and he'll probably suffer for it. How he will is unknown.
I think the best thing for yourself is to not let it get to you too much. Since the damage is done, the best thing for you to do is to forget he ever existed. You must begin with taking all your photos, notes, and even your emails and erasing them. If you find yourself look on myspace in nostalgia, erase your account. Preoccupy yourself with other stuff while you're trying to get your bearings. Eventually you will regain that equilibrium and you can progress onto another relationship. When you see him again, pay no attention to him. He does not exist. The best punishment for anyone is indifference; if you ignore him, he's just another person. If anything, he can't get a rise out of your reaction because there is none. He's not worth anymore thought.
When you are ready, you will find yourself a man who will respect you and adore you. We are out there. It's just a matter of time.
Best wishes
2007-03-23 18:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it..not all guys are jerks. Do you know how many gyus I had to date before I found my fiance? LOL if you concentrate on the bad in guys you'll never see a good one in front of you. Obviously he was immature and doesnt know the meaning of a "monogomous" relationship. You however are the bigger person, dont let him get to you and show him you can keep going. Dont cry over spilled milk....you'll find a good guy...just dont look for them. Let them find you.
2007-03-23 18:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them are my little generalising thing. Men get jerked around by woman too, but I refrain from branding them all as I believe in individuality and all that fluffy PC BS.....
You just haven't met the right one yet.
2007-03-23 18:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy's are not jerks. He just needs more than one woman can give him. That's being GREEDY. He already has a girl, so why would he cheat on you? .......Exactly.
2007-03-23 18:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are jerks because women tolerate (and even reward) that type of behavior.
2007-03-23 18:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by show83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are confused about what we want. hopelessly confused. eventually reality will hit in. until then nothing can stop guys from being **** heads.
except for a few. they aren't jerks, but usually loser like me
2007-03-23 18:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by OrangeBunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a gal cheat on me. Guys have no monopoly on jerkiness.
2007-03-23 18:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
todos chickos son perros
(all men are dogs)
they just try to show off and if a guy is gonna stoop to that level, foget them... there's someone else out there for you
2007-03-23 18:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all just some and thats because the like making people miseable
2007-03-23 18:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by monekysandwolves4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋