I don't know what to do! When I am with him I feel so safe, loved, and important and i just can't let him go! I now he is cheating on me because one day his phone rang and it was sitting on the table so i answered it. And a girl said is jake there, thats him, and i said yes may i ask who's calling she said I'm Clear jakes girlfriend may i ask who answering. I said i was jakes sister and i didn't know jake had a girlfriend. trying to get information and she was like yeah we have been dateing for 2 months. I asked if they had kissed yet and her answer made me wanna hurl! she said she doesn't event know that much about him because its hard to talk with jakes toung in her mouth! Eww
i need help because after all this i still want him and love him and care about him!!! Should I? Is this normal?
2007-03-23 11:14:25 · 31 answers · asked by Livy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just break it off, you dont need a boyfriend like that , dump his loser a** out the door, and find yourself , A real faithful loveing man, and not a stupid a** cheating boy, if you want him back , he will keep cheating on you, once a cheat , always a cheat, repect yourself, and leave his loser a**.
2007-03-23 11:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved and cared about u there's no need to cheat. Tell him what u found out about the other chick. Sit down and have a heart to heart with ur man. That would be the best thing to do. That way you both could agree what u wanna do in ur relationship.
2007-03-23 18:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by nicole h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a little comon logic, a saying ( whats good for the goose is good for the gander)= In otherwards your being taken for a ride and he knows you'll always be there to fall back on. why not go out with others. If hes serious about you, he'll stop seeing others, if not you'll know to go out and enjoy life again. Its better to find out now instead of makeing it worse later and if he says anything, just tell him you and his girlfriend had a nice talk about your 2 month fling.
2007-03-23 18:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am debating my own demons. However they have nothing to do with him cheating. But if that was the case, then it will no longer linger in my head, and I would just move on. Not because of him but because of my dignity and pride. You staying is only a proven fact that you don't love yourself!
2007-03-23 18:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better confront him first. If he is really serious with the girl, then better to save yourself from more pains to come. If he says he will leave the other woman for you... you say you love him so be ready to forgive and forget. If he do it again don't ever spend more of your time with him. That jerk will continue to be a jerk and you will continue to be sorry for being with him. You should have told the girl on the phone that you are also his girl friend. This will also make her think that he is cheating on her. share your burden with her other girls. and let them decide to leave him for you. That is a common reaction of a woman being cheated on ahich leaves the other woman more proud of herself. That is if you want to fight for your man.
2007-03-23 18:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by saint_peter888 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to regain some self esteem... walk away from the turd... not only is he treating you like second hand trash... he's exposing you to health risks... after all you're not just sleeping with him anymore... your sleeping with her... and whoever else she's lip locking with...
Is it love? love is a mixed emotion... a combination of all the greatest feelings in the world... and trust is one of them... that's gone... all that's left is a delusion. move up to a better class of "man" you deserve better... and really need to visit a doctor for a clean bill of health.
2007-03-23 18:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by alex b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure its normal to want to be the other woman......NO!!!
The man OBVIOUSLY doesnt love you!! Dont you think that you deserve a guy who ONLY WANTS YOU???
Boys, men do this because we let them get away with it.
Call him on it............actually, he probably already knows that you know because the other girl probably said "didn't your sister tell you I called" and he said..........NO and figured that it was you who answered the phone and since you havent said anything........he isnt going to.
It will hurt and it will suck, but TRUST ME, honey, you deserve
better than a guy who has more than just you as his girlfriend.
2007-03-23 18:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well two can play at that game.
simply arrange for one your (preferably male) friends who's in on the joke to ring you, but change their number's name on your phone (to my BF or something). get them to ring, then pretend to be speaking to ure other BF! jake will go mad wit jelousy and have no grounds to accuse u or he's a hypocrite!
2007-03-23 18:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you will except it or you won't. You still love him, so stay.
But if you get hurt, then you will have to suffer the consequences. Yes, this is normal, but most women just leave.
2007-03-23 18:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the heck... you heard it all, there is no other reason to believe in that guy, dump him and get a more responsible and handsome guy :P That is normal... but you know, hes no the only guy in the world...
2007-03-23 18:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by bambinoski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋