We broke up on tuesday and i am so confused by him. i want him back but he is confusing me so much and is so frusterating. He doesnt call me or text me anymore but he occasionally IMs me and says that he hopes we will find each other again in the near future and that he is missing me more everyday. Then he tells me all his plans for the weekend and says well, have a good weekend if i dont talk to you and goes offline. I am really sad because all i am trying to do is give him his space because it seems like thats what he wants but when he says stuff like that it just makes me realy sad becuase he clearly is not going to do anything about his "missing" me. Anyways what do i do now with a full weekend ahead of me with no plans, and everyone i know is working ALL weekend. I dont want to sit around and pout and i dont want him to think i am giving in by calling him at all. What to do to take my mind off of him???
2007-03-23 11:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go partying or do something with your friends. Makeout with some other guy or something. Keep yourself busy. It's easy.
2007-03-23 11:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am about a month ahead of you in a similar situation. What I started doing was exercising. It makes you feel better. It takes up time. You can go hiking or bike riding. I also took up old hobbies. I started reading classic novels and writing poetry. Right now is the time to do so self reflection. Find out what you really like without thinking about someone else. I hope that helps.
2007-03-23 18:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by lynn Da 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a breakup because it's broken. My guess is that he's not volunteering for Greenpeace and that he's already found ways to entertain himself. He's keeping you on the line in case she doesn't work out. You have 2 choices: You can stay in your PJ's and wallow, or you can hold your head up high and try to keep living. He's done with you, but wants you to hang around in case he gets a little lonely or hungry. You're too fabulous for that!
2007-03-23 18:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by H Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is moving on without you. Don't sit around and wait for him. If his IMs bother you stop responding back to him...
Time is the only thing that will heal...
Rent a movie, invite over the girls, get some ice cream and have a good time!
2007-03-23 18:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he really means is "as soon as I think I can't upgrade my chick,I want to keep the door open,so hold on while I go out single a while".Hump the first guy that cares.Hump him good.He's lookin for a humpin partner right now.It's what men do.
2007-03-23 18:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by doug s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but if you find out im me and let me know cause me and my girl were together for 3 yr's and she broke up with me for practically no reason and im still trying to find some direction ???? Im clueless
2007-03-23 18:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lil' K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take yourself out for the day. he is obviously trying to keep himself in your mind. Dont let him get to you. You can treat yourself better that any man could
2007-03-23 18:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got to move on. Things happen for the best. Don't worry about him cause obviously he not worrying about you. so just move on and there will be someone out there for you, who will love you. it's hard to get over things like this but don't let him get the best of you.
2007-03-23 18:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Ben & Jerrys Marshmellow Madness. It helped me. I still weigh 110 pounds. :)
Seriously, you'll be fine. These things just take time.
2007-03-23 18:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
I'm leaving now
but just in case u miss me, I did leave u fresh new batteries on the table
2007-03-23 18:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋