Ok so on St. Patricks Day my "now" ex girlfriend of 11 months goes with some friends over at a hangout party ( She told me of them and I said okay, unquestionably trusting her ) According to her, she was talking to her friend she knows at College and he has a crush on her, and he moves in to kiss her and she allows it. She feels horribly crush, thinking that its over, and since it was near my birthday, she was afraid I'll never forgive her, and she can never be with me without feeling guilt. But I think shes confused, because she broke up with me thinking that because of that she doesnt love me, and she "MIGHT" like this guy. So, I at first get angry on my b-day ( the 20th ), tell her lets make it work the next day, she says we'll see. And we're going to talk about it next wednesday, so how can I convince her we'll make it? This all happened unexpectactly, and she wishes it has never happened. How can I save the girlfriend I love? I do forgive her, but how can I prove itl work?
2007-03-23 11:02:00 · 10 answers · asked by Francisco L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you talk to her on Wednesday, get all the hurt out verbally. Tell her how hurt your were, how disappointed, how angry. Then tell her that was THEN and this is NOW. Tell her now you feel differently, that you still feel the two of you could still have a relationship, but only if she promises to be true and loyal to you alone.
Then it's her turn to be honest with you.
Good Luck
2007-03-23 11:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her, and even though it was wrong for her to kiss the other guy, you forgive her. Make sure she knows that you care about her, and that you will never hurt her like that. Don't make her feel bad and get her depressed. Maybe you two need a little time apart to get your bearings, or maybe it was just an accident. Don't yell at her, and try not to cry, because then she'll start crying. If you yell, she'll draw herself farther away from you and you might never get her back. Just definitely make sure she knows how much you love her, and that you always will. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 18:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Meggie Liz! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well start by talking about futures(yours and hers) if they match well then you can explain how you feel and where you want this to go if not sry but I cant help
2007-03-23 18:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by BABY BUTT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she still has any feelings for you. prove that you can 4give her,,, and make sure she isn't just trying to ditch u 4 the other dude!
2007-03-23 18:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by christina c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to want it just as bad as you do. That's the most sensible way.
2007-03-23 18:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something wrong with this picture. why is she the one that messed up and you are the one doing the convincing? there has to be more to it.
2007-03-23 18:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Renee G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that was just her excuse to break up with you, probably to start going out with this new guy
2007-03-23 18:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live each day with her happy. sometimes couples talk too much, think too much. just be together, happy. peace
2007-03-23 18:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no specific way but if its right it will just work out by itself
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-23 18:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldent my girl did tat to me and i ended it
2007-03-23 18:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋