How do you forget what you regret so much...?

Question

How do you forget about the only person who ever made you feel really special in your life?...i just can't let him go i feel so empty without him..and the worst part is i was the one who broke up with him...I was afraid....of being hurt again...and he was just so perfect...i let my fear get to me and now i regret it...
he won't talk to me and i have no way of telling him how truely sorry i am and how many times i have laid in bed awake all night crying cause i am a total idiot..and how many times i have skipped meals cause im never hungry anymore...

How do i stop the pain...?

Answer 1

Hey, Dont Be so down, catch him off gaurd and tell him exactly what you told us.. Regret hurts no matter how you take it, and you never really get over it.. So since you still have the chance tell him, that you still like him, and that You thought it was best to break up, but now you know what you have lost, and want to be with him again... If he has a heart and feelings for you, trust me he will come back.... And If not, your gonna regret it, but you must get over things in life... I hope i helped...

Answer 2

You are not supposed to forget what you regret you are supposed to learn from it, if you don’t learn then you are doomed to repeat it. Want the pain to go away find someone else. The real question however seems to be, how do you fix the mistake you made?

Just because he doesn’t talk to you doesn’t mean he doesn’t listen, be honest and tell him how you made a mistake. You obviously do not want to come off as an obsessed ex whom constantly calls and sends endless strings of e-mails and letters, so it is important that you are calm when you do contact him. If you truly care about him you have to take into account his feelings and that he was probably very hurt by your actions, and understands that he will probably be very defensive. Obviously you meant a lot to him so you are not forgotten and anger burns up quick so he can’t stay mad forever.
I would suggest, giving him a call to meet face to face over coffee or something light, so that you can apologize; it has to be a sincere apology and not a scheme to get him back. If you truly cared about him then you will just want him to be happy and you will put what you want aside. Trust is a hard thing to regain, but sincere, honest actions, and the truth help rebuild that trust. Do not give him excuses as to why you did what you did but help him understand why you did it.

Answer 3

You really need to get over the "fear" of getting hurt. Why can't you talk to him? Did he pass away? Move to another planet? It would set your mind at ease to just tell him the same thing that you just told a bunch of strangers. It may work out better than you think. What is the worst that could happen? You won't feel any worse, will you?

Answer 4

you need to fine that person, sit him down, and tell him how truly, deeply sorry you are. I've almost done the same thing, but I was talked out of dumping him by my friend. my friend told me that I was "being a little too obsessive about him, you're not married yet, let him do his thing. Being obsessive will cause anxiety, and anxiety will cause you to worry than you need to and over small things that shouldn't matter."
I don't know either of you, so don't eat me, but think, maybe you expected too much of him and he didn't know how to feed yer apetite for affection. Sometimes, you just need to back off and let him smell the roses by himself.
but that's off-topic.
You should call him and tell him to come over so you two can talk it out. He'll be stubborn at first, all men have they "if you liked me so much.. why'd u dump me in the first place? Am I just a toy that you decided to throw out, and now beginning to miss?" attitude. It'll take some time and lots of patience, but you can do it, sister, it'll be all better soon.

Answer 5

you move on.............its agony to live in the past. if it was sssssso perfect he would still be there grow up its time