Last night, my good friend confessed that he has always liked me and he wants to be with me. The only problem is I have been talking to someone else for a while...they both make me extremly happy and both are incredable people but I don't know which guy to choose...I'm so confused bc i was just getting ready to enter a relationship but then he tells me he loves me... The only hint i may have with my feelings is I act like someone completly diffrent with the guy i was gunna date, but i like the person i act like. i dont know...please give me some serious advice on this man issue...i need it .....BAD.
2007-03-23 10:45:42 · 17 answers · asked by K8T M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well nobody can give you that answer, the answer in in you, think about the one who makes you feel more comfortable, and most important, your friend, he knows you perfectly, he knows your ups And downs and knows your good things and bad attitudes, so , if he loves you, he really does, and he accepts you, the way you are, that`s love! and think about it, do you imagine how hard it was for him to tell you that kind of thing? it must have been the hardest believe me, so think about it, think about the one you think of when you wake up, the best of luck!! ;D
2007-03-23 10:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the second guy is only making a move now because he can see you are going towards someone else. It's not so much that he wants you as it's that he doesn't want someone else to have you. For him to tell you now is really selfish and inconsiderate on his part.
Do as you want, but I would tell him thank you if he ever tells you again and let it go at that, but continue with the other guy.
2007-03-23 10:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's tough. But your best friend needs to understand that you are with someone now. If he really cares about you, he will wait. Tell him that he took too long to tell you but in a comforting way so you dont hurt his feelings. Tell him he is a really good guy but you just began to see someone so you can't do that. If he really loves you, he might just wait for you. Good luck.
2007-03-23 10:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by valpo273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess it depends on how long you've known both of them.
Your old friend might be like a brother to you, i was in a relationship like that before. It started out o.k then it got weird.
If he has loved you for more than a year thats showing something.
Make a list of pros and cons for both guys.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!
$@l@r
2007-03-23 10:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by salar b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you trust more?
Dig down deep! Who do you like more??
Who can you see your self with for a long time?
*With you best friend when you break up!! You may not be friends anymore!!*
If you want to turn down your friend tell him you love him too much as a friend and cant mess with that!! good luck =]
2007-03-23 10:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur friend that I like you too, but I'm with someone else, but yeah I could be ur girlfriend, maybe he'll understanding the life ur going through
2007-03-23 10:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay girl, i feel ya, if the guy U R TALKING TO CAUSES U TO ACT DIFFERENTLY, EVEN THOUGH U LIKE THE OTHER PERSON U ACT LIKE, ASK YR SELF """ DO I REALLY WANT TO BE A FAKE, EN-EVETABLY IT WILL CAUSE PROBLEMS IN YR LIFE,, AS FOR THE BEST FRIEND ( WHAT ABOUT THE GIRL HE HAS THE BABY WITH WHAT IS THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM NOW( TRED LIGHTLY OR U MAY FIND YR SELF IN A BAD CITUATION
2007-03-23 10:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act - Real deal, which would you prefer the man that know and likes you for yourself or Fiction dealer.
2007-03-23 10:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you need to do is be your true self, you should not act different ways for different people, so before you add a partner you need to find yourself, you will be mutch happier, then once you find yourself the one who loves you for who you are will show himself, the other will lose interest
2007-03-23 10:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Russ S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who were are naturally and whoever is the best fit for that is the one you should be seeing.
By "acting" with someone else, you are only lying to that person.
2007-03-23 10:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋