How do I get him back.?

Question

i went out with this guy for like 2 months ad he broke up with me for his ex. Now he is over his ex completley and i asked him out and he said no. what do i do?

Answer 1

Hey hun. To be totally honest, he doesn't want you back. First off all, he left you for his ex because he didn't want to be with you. It didn't work out with her, hence why she was an ex.. .but then u ask him again, while he's single and still says no, because he doesn't want to be with you. You are now the ex, and I don't think he wants to date u. To be honest, you seem like a really caring person, to want to be with someone who ditched you for his ex, so go out there and find someone else. Somebody else out there wants all the love you can give them. To be honest, I just don't think i'ts a good idea to get back with him.

But since your question is asking what you should do to get him back, i say don't but here are some suggestions:
*Call him and ask to do friendly things, like bowling or pool, or go to a lounge or bar (make him feel comfy once again)
* Invite him over for a home cooked dinner
*Compliament him and tell him how much he means to you and how you think you could be the "girl" for him

Answer 2

You need to move on and surround yourself with friends and new people. He may not be over his ex yet even if it appears that way. He could also be taking his anger for his ex's rejection out on you. If this is the case, the best thing you can do is to appear like you have a fabulous life that is too wonderful and busy for him. For whatever reason, and I really don't get it, men are attracted to this. They like the chase so don't ask him again, just ignore him and go find someone better to see. You'll eventually forget him or win him back. Good luck.

Answer 3

Give him some time.
I'm pretty sure he's not completely over his ex - that usually takes years, especially if he went out with her again - ex's are powerful things!
Just relax a bit. Keep on friendly terms with him, and try not to seem needy or get too close too quickly.
He needs his space right now.

Answer 4

you accept no for an answer girl. The boy is not feeling you at this time in his life. You are suffering from rejection and don't want to feel that you were dumped. there are other fish in the sea, go and find you another fish unless of course you want to be a plain ol booty call.

Answer 5

i was in the same situation but i finally thought im not going to try to get him back because you broke up for a reson and if he cared about u that much he would of never broken up wit you for his x and if he wanted to be with you agin he would ask you out you should try beacuse no matter how hard u do u wont get him back unless he wants you to good luck~

Answer 6

Kick up the booty - That should be something he wants. I had an ex that went from ex, to booty call, back to GF for a while so it can work like that.

Answer 7

You shouldnt want him back if he did it once he will do it again. He said no he has a choice and by chasing after him you look needy and sprung. Just let it go he aint worth it. You can do better.

Answer 8

You can not do this to yourself....

You said it yourself, he broke up with you for his ex....

He would have broken up with you regardless...

Give yourself some dam credit and find yourself a person who wants you back.

Good Luck.

Answer 9

Move on.

He is not interested. Anything you do now will make you look pitiful and needy - not attractive at all. Accept it and move on.

Answer 10

Why would you want him...He will do it again if he really wanted you he would have stayed with you to start with...sorry to be so harsh but look at the big picture.