Even though we have been with each other for a long time but he is currently there for work. He will come back until next month, he has been down there for 2 months, should I wait? I feel like he is seeing someone there. He did it before like when we started dating and hasn't anymore. I dont know.
2007-03-23 10:40:11 · 18 answers · asked by ♪F↑☺W£R♪ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He works for an oil company, the reasons why I do suspect is because he's been going out every weekend, calls me drunk, there are a lot of young tourists, I called him once and said I love you and he didnt say it back but I heard his "co-worker" on the back. I have seen picture of some girls, they are attracive. I guess I do not have "proof" but I can just feel like if he is.
2007-03-23 10:59:39 · update #1
I am not being "Evil" and plotting the break-up, I love him and this whole situation is breaking my heart, I wish things were different but they are not.
2007-03-23 11:00:46 · update #2
Do u KNOW he's seeing someone else?
OR
Do u just feel that way..
Dont make rushed decisions without knowing the full story
u know what they say 'act in haste,repent in leisure'..
If u wanna make it work maybe its time u move to Qatar with him ,or,he gets a new job there with u.
I think u need to talk before u do anything.
U wouldn't be asking if u didnt care about him!
And rightfully so if u are together a long time..
Hope this helps a little,
Paul
(ps about the purty mexican flower, email me here on answers!!)
2007-03-23 10:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a long term relationship should never be broken off over the phone or long distance. Ask yourself if that would be the way you would want to hear that news? And is this break-up because you no longer love this man or is it because of some "feeling" you have that he is being unfaithful. As a man let me give you a sneak peek to what really iritates us. 1) When you believe your single friend(s) when they tell you they have a feeling your man is cheating on you but don't have proof and suggest you should question or break up with him (this is probably the reason this girl is single remember that) and 2) When you yourself just instinctly think that the man is cheating but aren't sure so you act on it anyway. In a true relationship the benefit of the doubt goes hand in hand with commitment.
2007-03-23 10:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by wforeman3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are to be breaing up PLEASE do not do it over a phone or worst thru email....these are things and issues to be treated personally. It would be wise to confront him and let him know what u feel when u talk...listen to what he has to say.On the other hand if u suspect something is going on in there ask , but above all ...take the time to talk face to face when he comes, THEN make the decision...if u have been on a LDR (long distance relationship) If u both have made the effort., at least take some time to hear him out and make your conclusions..Aside that u are very young and you should be treated with respect and u can find someone who won't lie to ou from the start
2007-03-23 10:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by LatinSpice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who experienced it himself. If you feel he is cheating, you need proof. Not Here say. And if you can prove it beyond a shadow of a doubt, then end it face to face. Sure emotions will run high but it's better than doing it over the phone. And if you've already found someone better by all means do what will be in your best interest. But make sure that you have the decency to be honest to the ex when he confronts you about it. Above all never be ashamed of how you feel. In the end it's your feelings that matters.
2007-03-23 10:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, wait do not breakup over the phone. wait until he gats back and talk to him about your intentions and why.
Don't let these other comments made by foolish men that pray on women with a desparate emotional needs get to you.
wait and be mature about it. let him know why you are breaking up if you've decided and why.
2007-03-23 10:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by moulin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you DARE break up with him over the phone or internet. That happened to me once. It was the worst. No way to communicate or even start the healing process.
2007-03-23 10:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Roger M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While he is busting his A$$ in some dusty hell-hole, you're lounging around the internet plotting to break up with him. Women sure are classy creatures!
2007-03-23 10:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is a long time for you to keep up the relationship if your ready to get out - just call him.
2007-03-23 10:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by dani77356 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in the military in Qatar.... You really think he has the time to cheat on you ?
Who are you seeing or what is the better opportunity for you right now....
2007-03-23 10:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is best. Tell him, but in a nice way. Be sincere and hopefully he will respect your decision. Good luck.
2007-03-23 10:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋