My best friend (and crush) when i was in grade school was a boy named Zach. Zach had no feeling for me what-so-ever. But I met up with him just a couple weeks ago. I got to know alot about him. He's 4 years older than me. We are good friends now and he knows I still have feelings for him. But he has a girlfriend that he plans on spending the rest of his life with. What can I do to make him change his mind? P.S. -- I dont want it to be all my fault because they make a great couple! she deserves him...but I want him!
2007-03-23 10:35:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wouldn't want to "make" him change his mind! He'd resent it down the line. If it's meant to be with you, it will be! If it's not, then it won't be, simple as that! Good Luck!
2007-03-23 10:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT EVEN GO THERE GIRL(SNAP SNAP) go find someone who has the same qualities you like in zach and leave zach alone. He may or may not last with his girlfriend don't wait to see what happens because while your waiting "Mr right " could walk right by you and you wont see him. Things happen for a reason and for some reason you and zach are not to be. Later on in life when you marry the love of your life and have 3 adorable children it will all make scence.
2007-03-23 10:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you had all that time from grade school to right before he got this girl and you did nothing about it. Its your loss now. And you do sound greedy towards the end of this. Haven't you ever heard of there are other fish in the sea. And what if it doesn't work out between you two. They you have to deal with knowing you ruined a wonderful relationship just cause you were greedy. Guess the saying is true you want what you can't have. Don't be a b*tch. Move on.
2007-03-23 10:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very touching, yet quite common position you are in. Life and love and be so confusing at times. Deciding exactly what to do can be one of the toughest decisions a young girl can make. With matters of the heart, extreme caution needs to be taken so as to not make the situation worse, but there is hope for you! Luckily, the true answer is quite apparent in this case. You must gain the trust of Zachs girlfriend, and then join them in a hot, nasty threesome... this is sure to brighten the lives of everyone involved, and get you close to that dude you want ...make sure its really hot and nasty though, lots of girl on girl action, but without forgetting whos the star of the show, of course...now get out there and be happy! Good luck!
2007-03-23 10:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
With relationship, while you're the two criminal, i'm superb with it. The age could be a concern in case you moved onto being married or having an fairly long term era relationship, as enable's settle for it, they are very probable to start no longer being waiting to maintain up with you in many aspects. you're additionally 24, have some exciting on an analogous time as you could, you have years previous to you while can continuously %. up older adult males once you have had adequate exciting.
2016-12-15 07:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by motato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this your crush has found his dream girl and he is off limits. It is never smart to get in the middle of real love even if he does fall for you he will always be pissed and regret getting to know you because his life was going great already. If he has already told you he want's to spend the rest of his life with this girl that means she might as well be his wife. See if he has friend he could hook-you up with because he is taken, off the market, sold, not yours to have,
another gals man, stop being so selfish it's his life not yours
he has found who he want's.
2007-03-23 10:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that. It would be so selfish to try to ruin what they have together so you can date him. It sounds like you guys aren't exactly super close anymore. What makes you think you could spend the rest of your life with him? You could be broken up in a month. And you'll have ruined both of their lives for one selfish month. I beg you to just let them be. If they happen to split up and you're still available, then go for him. Otherwise, just let them be happy and look for a new crush.
2007-03-23 10:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend and should he find out that you were the one to play games within his relationship with this other girl you might just discover that you lost a friend and made an enemy for life. I doubt you want to be labeled as a relationship wrecker.
2007-03-23 10:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your such a whore but um thats how me and my girlfriends friendship broke up cuzz her boyfriend was attracted to me the first time he saw mi so then she wants 2 fight mi since her boyfriend wants mi and not her shes old news 2 him jusz some assz 2 **** but um steal her boyfriend if he starts having feelings for you.
2007-03-23 10:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it up, you arent going to get him. you werent going to get him back in the day and you arent now. there is no way for you to break them up and get him because if he wants to spend the rest of his life with this person why would he be happy if you broke it up. the best thing you can do is let it go and move on.
2007-03-23 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋