We get on, i do find him attractive, everything is great except i just dont get turned on by him in the bedroom
2007-03-23 10:29:34 · 15 answers · asked by mudfish 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you can be in love with some one even if they dont turn you on, just talk to him because maybe he isnt doing the things that you like
2007-03-24 05:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by amy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on the type of relationship you plan to have with him. You can love him, loving someone isn't nessicarily have to based around intercourse. Besides that, scientists have proven that women get better pleasure during intercourse if they love the person with whom theyare copulating. So my bet is yes, you should give it a try, give the guy a chance I promise you; things will look up. Eventually you will enjoy spending some 'private' with him.
To conclude, yes you definatley can love this guy ,so what are you waiting for go get him. lol
2007-03-23 10:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by i_luv_suvs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the case, then you are not 'in love' with him. you have reached a comfort zone. don't get trapped in it.
love has to do with what is important to you. some people don't care about sex and will stay with someone in that way. if sex is important to you then you should either talk to him about it and discuss it openly, maybe you can work on it. if that is not an option you may want to consider just being friends because in a minute, (as life does it) you are going to come accross that person that is really going to turn you on, and you don't want to end up cheating on him.
best of luck, i hope this helped a bit.
2007-03-23 10:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in the bedroom there should be a like religious experience - oh God , oh Jesus , oh yes baby that's the spot Thank you Lord! - If you are lacking this basic religious experience life isn't LIFE! Seek and Ye shall find>>> keep looking! Good luck.
2007-03-23 10:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emma perhaps you need to reconsider what it is that does not turn you on and start to focus on his attributes that you enjoy. Do not be hung up on the physical side of nature become more in tuned with the emotional satisfaction within your relationship and I believe you will discover a newly highlighted sense of arrousal from within yourself.
"Good-Luck"
2007-03-23 10:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Chaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with him?If you love someone the slightest glance from them can give you butterflies,sounds like a brotherly love you have for him were you take him for granted?
2007-03-23 10:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by bubble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you need to try and spice up your sex life. try doing something different.
perhaps you just arent compatible and its more a platonic love than an actual relationship love
2007-03-23 11:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be in love with him, sometimes alot of woman dont have that libido and cant reach an orgasm and in that case you should consult a professional.
2007-03-23 10:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by just curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell you can teach him how to please ya. Tell him what to do and what not to do. Why throw away a good man when you can teach him something good that benefits the both or you?
2007-03-23 10:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can. you love your family and dont have those feelings for them.
2007-03-23 10:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋