2007-03-23 10:27:29 · 36 answers · asked by bubble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no, i have affairs with married men. since they're not married, they are fair game. basically, just hook up with whoever you want. you only get to play this game once, so go out swinging
2007-03-23 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by nancy h 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes. It's wrong to have an affair with anyone who's in a relationship with someone else, and even more so if they're serious enough to be engaged.
2007-03-23 10:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to have an affair, period. If the other person is married, engaged, separated but not divorce, or in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, then they belong to somebody else, and you're the skank if you try and convince them to cheat on that relationship in any way.
You should do the honorable thing and wait until the relationship is officially over before making your move, and the other person should have the dignity and self-respect to officially end a relationship that isn't satisfying, before exploring other option.
2007-03-23 10:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If someone who is engaged is willing to have an affair with you the person they are engaged to needs to know this. What a waste of her life to depend on a bum!
2007-03-23 10:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different opinions about what is or is not morally wrong. But think about it this way. If you were engaged would you want your fiancee having an affair with somebody else?
2007-03-23 10:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by loricooie7 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gee let's see, you had an affair with a person who is already in a relationship with someone else and is about to marry them. hmmm, thats a tough call, is that wrong? yeah fool that is wrong, for both you and the engaged person who is cheating. watch out because karma is a b*tch that shows up when you least expect it.
2007-03-23 10:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is just for sex, yes its wrong. If you both have true feelings for eachother and he does not want to be with his fiance, he needs to break it off with her before you continue with the affair. If you have not had the affair yet, dont do it.
2007-03-23 10:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, very wrong. Sounds like the engaged person does not really want to get married. Otherwise they would not be doing this. Is this the type of person you want to be with, someone that will cheat on their fiancee?
2007-03-23 10:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Va princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to have an affair- engaged or not. And btw, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-03-23 16:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong. would like someone to have an affair with your partner while you all are engaged. its just not right.
2007-03-23 13:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lady L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that person is the one doing the wrong - especially if engaged, married or in a serious relationship period.
Just goes to show that they shouldn't be getting married at all.
But if you want to be the good conscience you won't do it. Tell her to either break things off with her man before you get involved with her or just don't waste your time. Why go after someone like that anyways - just goes to prove they aren't trustworthy to begin with.
2007-03-23 10:31:39 · answer #11 · answered by JD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋