I need a video that shows how to have sex. This is my first time. I am getting married on Sunday. I want to be ready by then. Is there a website that haves a free video that will teach me? Thanks.
2007-03-23 10:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by YeahYeahdkfn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
most "movies" are not going to be helpful as they are not going to be realistic. your fiance' will not have the same tastes as "every other person" out there anyway... the only way to learn is to learn together what each of you likes.
Communicate, if you cant actually tell your new spouse what feels good then let them know by your reactions (dont hide it or feel shy about it, or they will never know what you enjoy) and you should pay attention to their wants and needs as well (if they tell you they like you to touch a certain way or in a certain area, or if they moan when youre kissing, etc).
Sex is a learning experience even for the most "seasoned" lovers, because every person may like something different... learn together. Learning CAN be the best part!
2007-03-23 10:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother.
If it's your first time, I'm sure it's her first time also. So relax, take it easy and let it happen by itself. (If it's not her first time, she will show you.)
Don't worry about performing; she is marrying you because she loves you. That's all you need to know.
Experiencing things like that with your wife is a beautiful thing you'll share. You will look back to this time and enjoy your innocent ways.
Don't be bothered about not knowing what to do exactly. Just take it slow, be very gentle and enjoy your new wife.
After you guys "consummate" the marriage and both of you feel more comfortable about "making love" then get some movies.
But enjoy not knowing...you'll thank me later....
2007-03-23 17:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by theman134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't believe that this is a legitamate question. If you are truly being serious, you don't want to watch any video! First of all I want to commend you on staying a virgin until marriage! You love your spouse so much to marry them...everything will come naturally. Don't ruin everything by trying to live up to certain expectations you will find on a video. Congrats!!
2007-03-23 19:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the video! Nature will take care of all you need to know the first time.
2007-03-23 22:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by question212 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a video, just a loving husband...what a joy for him to be able to go with you into this venture the first time!
2007-03-23 17:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a movie, cause that is not real sex. Anyways, it's not difficult, just relax. If you are too tense it will not be enjoyable. Sex is natural, you will know what to do.
2007-03-23 18:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Janice O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a movie store that has them. Rent a hotel room for the night and get to watching some movies. It really is not that hard to do.
2007-03-23 17:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by Va princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes - go check out maxhardcore.com - the have some great examples there.
ALSO: In the early 16th century, men used to have to prove that they consumated their marriages. In order to do that, they would have their wife lift up her skirt and bend over so the other men could check. If the man was satisfied that she was deflowered he would pour honey down her crack, so the next person that wanted to check could just stick their finger down there and see if it tasted like honey. I'm pretty sure thats true, I think I read it in a history book.
2007-03-23 17:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋