...and she is almost two. So, it didn't work out with me and her dad and I'm finally with someone I really care about...problem is....I can't climax! Before my daughter I could get there on a regular basis. Now, even though it feels really good, I can't hit the punchline! What's going on and does anyone have any advice, wisdom, insight, etc?
2007-03-23 10:21:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you able to climax during masterbation or not at all? If you tore during childbirth, it is possible you damaged the clitoral area. If you are able to climax on your own but not with a partner, it might just be psychological or they are just not pleasing you.
2007-03-23 10:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't sleep with anyone until my son was 5. the problem with us women and climaxing is that if we put just one thought too many into it, it's over. you have to teach yourself to relax through the whole thing. don't base what's going on now with your past sexual experiences or else you are going to become frustrated in trying to fix it.
a lot of times subconciously thoughts linger. i say, enjoy this new relationship, get to know the guy and enjoy him as well. who knows, it may just be him. sometimes we think that it's us, but you may just be with a guy that does not get to the point. you know, it's good, but it's not great.
enjoy being single, and make up for those two years.
good luck
2007-03-23 10:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often this happens for women. You just have to keep trying. Maybe once you have an emotional connection to this guy, you will be able to finish. Good luck.
2007-03-23 10:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a call. I'll make you hit the punchline. You should also consider trying the other hole.
2007-03-23 10:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you have so new insecurities? Share them with your new guy and I'm sure he would be willing get rid of them and help you get to the big o
2007-03-23 10:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here my email terrydewaynejones@yahoo.com show me that monkey and i seeing what i can work with i be eatingt that monkey in know time tell me if it direspectful
2007-03-23 10:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by terrydewaynejones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make your self do it , then you will know things are working
then you can find out if some else can do it
2007-03-23 10:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vibrators / Toys / Oral / Masturbation......Nothing works ??
Are you too tense ?...How about a couple drinks ?
2007-03-23 10:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.. you haven't had sex in a long time.. it takes practice.........
2007-03-23 10:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋