Hi every one,
I’ve been with my girlfriend for that last 5 years; I do love her so much. as couple in relationships sometimes down but we have been always great couple….six moth ago I left the country doing higher education for one year she was agreed on that…but for the last 3 months ( I saw her twice)her feeling wasn’t the same and she was saying that she doesn’t know if she loves me or not…but I do love her very much and deep…4 days ago she told me she doesn’t want to talk to me or to see me and she doesn’t love me anymore. I’ve trying to communicate with her but without success, at end she said she has been seen someone else for the last few weeks (2 to 3 weeks) and telling me not to come to see her…my heart is broken…but I love her, true love…she is the centre of my life….do I let her go or fight for my love and take the plane to see her??? Good advice please
2007-03-23 10:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by asterix4all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no choice but to let her go. The more you push her, the more she'll pull away. In fact, she's already told you her mind is made up. If you continue to pressure her, you'll ruin any chance you might ever have of getting back together.
In all honesty, why would you want her back? She's been cheating on you. You managed to remain faithful, it wasn't too much to ask for her to do the same. Her actions are speaking louder than any words she's saying. She's been seeing this other person for much longer than a few weeks. Her actions changed about 3 months after you left. That is probably when she started seeing the other person.
That right there is enough evidence to show you what disloyal person she is. There are people who go to different countries because they are in the military and their spouses remain faithful. A commitment is a commitment. This chick just used the distance as an excuse to cheat.
Your best bet is to let her go. She messed up the relationship and you'll only hurt yourself by dragging this out any further. Chalk it up to her loss and take solace in the fact that her little romance probably won't last that long. If it starts off with cheating, it will probably end in cheating. You deserve someone who can be faithful & respectful. She's done nothing but disrespect you. Time to move on and find a real woman who can go without sex for a few months for the man she loves.
2007-03-23 10:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always better fish in the sea.
She isn't really worth fighting for at this point. She should of been honest with you and told you sooner than she did.. Her stringing you on like that was not right of her. She knew that you were waiting to be with her and she agreed to it to. But she turns around and starts seeing another man (cheating on you) while you out of the country thinking about her. Just let her go and one day she will realize what she has done and that time it will be to late and you will have a better woman in your life then she could ever be. Just concentrate on your schooling and don't let this get you down. It may hurt at first but the pain will go away.. Trust me it does...
Good luck to you
2007-03-23 10:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by geodude95670 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go... She is already seeing someone else. She basically cheated on you while KNOWING you were waiting for her. Thats pretty lousy. She shouldnt have done that, and you should NOT forgive her for it. Keep up with your school, and someday you will find a MUCH better woman who will NEVER hurt you like this. Good luck
2007-03-23 10:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's moved on it's probably best you do the same. I suggest if you want to keep in touch to tell her you love her and if she doesn't want to be with you you'll respect that but you still want to be friends. So at least you get to see and hear from her still.
2007-03-23 10:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u go on a plane then she will know u really love her, or u can just let her go.
2007-03-23 10:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Sorry hun, but love has to be a two way thing.
2007-03-23 10:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 07:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋