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I need help, i'm not sure whats really going on between me and my boyfriend... we haven't seen or talk to each other in 3 weeks... I saw him today after school. But i didn't go where he was at because i was on the bus and if i got off the bus would leave me and no way to get home.. Well anyways. theres this girl that he talks to. I saw her after school running towards the buses and i was thinking "she was probley with him" next thing i know i see my boyfriend standing by himself the same place she was at..meaning they were together... i tell my friends about him and they say that guys like that are jerks... NEED ADVICE and please tell me what you think.. Really Appreciate it Thanks

2007-03-23 10:11:07 · 12 answers · asked by Maritsa H 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

If any one, boy or girl, is meeting with other people romantically, you should confront them about it and end the relationship. However, it seems like you aren't exactly sure. I would ask him directly, and the other girl as well if possible. I hate to say it, but you will probably break up any ways since you haven't spoken to each other in so long. Worry not, though. If you're going to school, you're probably still young and have a lot of youth ahead of you. Too much to worry long about some relationship. By the way, he is a jerk, from that story. He should've broken up before starting anything with the other girl.

2007-03-23 10:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Linus 2 · 0 0

You havent seen or talked to him in 3 weeks? It sounds like you guys broke up without actually breaking up, or that he may have not even known you were "together." Its hard to say if he's a jerk or not, but at this point, I would say its safe to move on!

2007-03-23 10:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have you asked him what this girl means to him? Could be a friend, or someone he goes to class with. I wouldn't jump the gun until you know for sure what their relationship is towards one another. If you don't like the answer or if it progresses then drop him. Your too young to be holding on to one guy that has no respect for you if he's chatting it up with another girl. Good luck.

2007-03-23 10:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Even if they're just friends, a true boyfriend wouldn't go 3 weeks without seeing you...you need to end it. You don't need someone like him.

2007-03-23 10:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by John R 2 · 0 0

guys dont go 3 weeks without talking or seeing their girlfriend, because girls have a strong effect on guys. if he's okay with not seeing or talking to you for 3 weeks he's not worth your time babe, just break it off, what a loser.

2007-03-23 10:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by TheBeautifulMess 6 · 0 0

I think that if you haven't talked to your boyfriend in 3 weeks then he is no longer your boyfriend.

2007-03-23 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0 0

Time to get a new boyfriend. This one is cheating on you!

2007-03-23 10:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Before you just assume he's cheating, or whatever you are assuming, you should get his side of the story. She might be his cousin or something.

2007-03-23 10:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 2 · 0 0

If so then forget bout him!! hes not worth ur time if he never talks to u!! And find someone else who is goin to talk and not CHEAT! Cause that is what he is doin is cheating ! Confront him with it too! firts ask y he won't talk to u and if he is seein someone else!! ur welcome!!

2007-03-23 10:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole D 1 · 0 0

why dont u confront him about this. ask him what's going on and why u stopped talking. after all he is YOUR bf...he shouldnt be seeing anyone else.

2007-03-23 10:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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