wrong category hunny
2007-03-23 10:14:06
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answered by *<dEzI>* 3
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If you're still in school, baby, you don't have a problem that won't take care of itself as you grow. If you're a teenager, there's the answer: the teen years are the best and the worst, all at the same time. The peer pressure can be difficult to handle - but don't let anyone make you think you're life is wrong just because you choose to live your life right now as a single person. That actually is the smartest thing you can do while you're still young. (Now, I'm assuming that you are at least no older than 25.) So, if you're in college - just put your energies into your studies and the friends I'm sure you must have - enjoy these times, they don't last long. Soon enough life will take care of itself. All things will fall into place as they are supposed to - just don't rush it. Enjoy your years while they belong to you - soon enough there will be a husband, babies, bosses, supervisors demanding your time.
I don't think that there's a single person alive who dosn't sometimes long to be not single - and I don't believe that there's a married person who doesn't sometimes wish to be single again. Both statuses have their pros and cons.
Learn to be your own best friend then you will find a lot less time of lonliness.
If you have a lot of friends then you must be pretty cool - so get to know yourself and hang out with that person more - I'll bet you'll enjoy it!!
Cheri
2007-03-31 08:47:57
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answered by skccab 1
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It's because you are an adolescent. Give it a few years and with any luck you will be more reasonable about yourself.
You don't see what everyone else sees because NOBODY sees what anyone else sees. You are different to everyone else, just like everyone is different, but you are seeing it as maybe being a problem. There's not a problem, there's just the realisation that you are you.
Lonely and busy...... It is possible that you are keeping busy to avoid thinking about something. The only thing you can do about that is stop being so busy and work through it. The negativity about yourself might be down to the stress of avoiding whatever you aren't thinking about.
You can be lonely when you are in a relationship, just as much as when you are single. That is not the problem.
2007-03-23 10:14:33
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answered by Dharma Nature 7
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It's not because you're single so much as you've unfortunately learned to value yourself through others. Specifically, you might feel you need a boyfriend/girlfriend (which ever way you swing) to make you feel wanted and attractive. It's a common malady pointing to some kind of self-esteem issue. If these thoughts continue as a pattern you might want to see a therapist and talk it out. Most women with body dismorphic disorder report having had such feelings as you describe before their thoughts ballooned into the full-blown disorder.
However, it is also common to have these thoughts in high school and college because so much emphasis is put on who you are or or not dating. But being single allows you to get to know yourself in a way that you can't when you're all tied up with another person. Only when your single can you figure out what you like to do with your time, how you feel about important issues, etc because only then is there no one around to influence you or cloud your judgement. Enjoy your singlehood and when the next eligible person wanders into your life, you'll be ready.
2007-03-23 10:21:10
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answered by marks311girl 1
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It's not because you're single. Everyone has down times in their lives. This may be easier said than done, but try not to just see the negatives. Treat yourself to something. Also, if you have been really busy, that could be a factor. Schedule some downtime and do something you enjoy.
2007-03-23 10:17:45
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answered by Purdey EP 7
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No, I dont think that can be it at all because you can be happy single and very lonely with someone else too. I do know that pretty girls are more susceptible to feeling insecure but it sounds more like a chemical or hormonal change in your body and it could be normal or it could be depression. Best maybe to talk to your family doctor about this too.
2007-03-31 08:11:12
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answered by Anonymous
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This is not because you are single, seems to have more to do with your self image. Is this a new feeling? Talk to someone older whom you trust. Some times just talking it through can help. You may need more help than that but it could be just a phase linked to something going on in your life right now. Whatever it is...don't ignore it, these things only grow bigger inside our minds. Be pro-active! Good luck...d
2007-03-31 08:10:48
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answered by becca 2
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If you could only see yourself as God sees you, you'd have no trouble being down on yourself. You'd be saying, "Look at me, I'm fearfully and wonderfully made by my Creator." You'd have a song in your heart and a skip to your step. Plenty of time for a boyfriend. Wait and make sure you know what you want in a boyfriend. Don't date just any person to be dating. You can fall in love with the wrong person. Pray about your loneliness.
2007-03-23 10:19:53
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answered by Jeancommunicates 7
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No. Many people who are in loving relationships have spells where they feel the same way.
Not all the voices in your head are your conscience. Somtimes it is something else. Your biggest enemy is the darkness whispering these lies in your ear.
You are beautiful and you are loved.
2007-03-23 10:16:57
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answer #9
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answered by Max Marie, OFS 7
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Read "The Idiot's Guide to Zen Living"
Should straighten you right out
2007-03-23 10:14:30
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answer #10
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answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5
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I know exactly how you feel: I used to fell that way also, until I met Jesus Christ and accepted Him as my Lord and Savior. After that, I found out that He was exactly what I was missing. Maybe your soul desire Him.
2007-03-30 04:51:36
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answered by Anonymous
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