for the baby. She told him he had to be with her so me and him have been kind of having this side relationship for about a week. Well, wednesday morning, he slept with her. I understand that THEY are together but he and I were planning on getting married and we had all of these plans for our future and he told her he loves her but that he si IN love with me but we got in this big arguement and now he isnt with either of us and I dont know what I am supposed to do. We have been together for a while and he was only with her for the baby....
2007-03-23 10:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tara, this is a bozo no no, you need to tell him its either you or her, period. End of story. He want's to have his way and if you tolerate this nonsense your only setting yourself up for a huge let down. As a matter of fact, If I think if I were you, I'd dump the clown right now.
2007-03-23 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he's totally lying to you. Everything he's said has been a lie. Why would his baby's mom "make" him be with her? You don't have to be with someone because you have a child together. He wanted to screw you both and made up a few lame excuse to do so.
There's not a whole lot you can do here unless you want to continue being a side relationship. He's not in love with you hun. He wants to sleep with multiple women and get away with it. So far, he's screwing you both over in more ways than one.
Get away from him. He's honestly not worth a damn. He's a liar and a cheat. You're not going to change him no matter how much you think you love him. He's just rotten and there's nothing you can do about that except get him out of your life forever. He'll beg to come back but, if you want to be his doormat and continue to be cheated on, take him back. Otherwise, I'd advise you to change your phone number and call the cops if he shows up.
This guy isn't even a good player. He's a bad liar and an idiot. The thing he's got going with his baby's mom is never going to end. Let those two fools deal with that drama. Be the smart one and get out of it altogether. You'll be better off in the end. You're not winning anything if you get this loser back. Let her have him and find someone who truly respects and honors you. This guy ain't the one.
2007-03-23 17:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun it sounds like your very young.
1 they have a kid together- they will do whats best for this kid and it kinda sounds like your standing in the way of this.
2 do you really want to be with a man that does not stay with the mother of his child? Or a man that has "side relationships".
Things like this usually turn out very badly, you may end up strung along until you find out he was also having another side relationship.... just end it now and find an honest guy, really who needs the drama?
2007-03-23 17:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by 4Real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple, you leave him. If you can't get your emotional attachments under control, you will put yourself in a long term damaging relationship, or at least one with no growth. How can a woman be interested in a man that cannot make a decision. Don't believe what he is telling you. He is doing what he wants to do.
2007-03-23 17:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by schnellcoder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think they slept together "for the baby"...maybe for another one, but not for the baby. I would give him some time to think about it all. but give a time limit. youre not supposed to wait around forever.
2007-03-23 17:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by kt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparantly he was with her for more than just the baby if he slept with her. Makes new plans without him.
2007-03-23 17:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by J2S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him like the sorry butt he is. She was offering and he took it and it will happen again. He cheated on you w/her and her w/you, the man is a cheater and it will keep on this way so just walk away now and cut your loses.
2007-03-23 17:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
O ya he was only in it for the baby.. hahah. My god are you dumb? He's a guy and he is getting two puss*** instead of one.. and you are soooooo stupid to even consider being with him..... he is playing you........
Move on and get a new dude. He's a total loser.....
2007-03-23 17:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so the baby needed them to have sex??? wake up hun he is playing u
2007-03-23 17:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe that horsecrap. He chose to move her in, now if I were you, I would move on.....you don't want him or anyone like him.
2007-03-23 17:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋