This morning my x- boyfriend call me to see if I wanted to go to the park with him and I told him NO is better if we don’t see each other any more. (He did some very mean things to me, which was the reason for the break-up) Well he started crying telling me that he can’t get over me that he misses me and that he wishes he could hate me that way he wouldn’t be hurting for me. So this was my response, I told him " go and sleep with as many girls as you want I don’t care I'll even introduce some to you, just leave me alone,” He started to cry so bad and told me that I was been cruel to him. Now I'm kind of worried if I did the right thing by been rude. I'm worried he is going to do something stupid, Should I call and check up on him?
2007-03-23 10:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by Jazmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you fall for that now, you will be doing it forever. He is your Ex for a reason, to hold onto him is only hurting you. You need to move on with your life and let him deal with his mistakes on his own.
2007-03-23 10:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Angie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes tough love is the only love to give.
It was probably better off that you did not go to the park and see him. Men and women sometimes get scared and think that they are never going to find someone else like the person that they were just with. They find there selves depressed find there selves wanting that person back. In some cases it is not that they want the person that they were with back they just want the feelings that they got when they were with the person and they feel that they are never going to get the same feeling again. Which is right/wrong because you may not get the same feeling, you may get the same feeling but the feeling you will probably get will feel better will feel different. Some men and women become dependent on their partner in the relationship which leads to the fear of them leaving you. They get scared they get angry sometimes they start treating the person that they are with like they are an enemy and a lot of the times they don't really know what they are doing and sometimes they do. If it was me i would give them a little while to think about things before i started taking to them if that at all. It is sometimes better to cut someone out of your life. That may be harsh or seem mean but sometimes that is the best thing to do....But whatever you decide is what you think is right to do..but think hard..think clearly..then make a decision
2007-03-23 17:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by geodude95670 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a girl I used to be friends with and she did something mean to me too, but then one day she just started talking to me again, so I decided to let it go...then a week later she did something even worse. Things like that will happen over and over again unless you get tough at some point; I know you don't feel good about it, but it sounds like your relationship with him is very unhealthy. If you had gone with him, he might have tried to pull you back into a relationship and hurt you again.
Just to be sure, I'd recommend finding someone else to check up on him, but if you can't you need to tell him at some point you just don't want a relationship with him anymore and he needs to accept that so your concern for him doesn't give him the wrong impression.
2007-03-23 17:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Good for you girl friend! I'm so proud of teens for acting out and not taking a mans bunch fo crap.Hes only doing this so you will feel sorry for him and come a running . Don't do it.You did good by telling what you did. He deserves it,if he treated you like dirt.Send him to the curb and keep him there.Of course he feels bad but he will do it again and again.Congratulations to you for being so strong and keeping away from the creeps.Don/t buy into his crap its all a game to get you back.Men like the chase but once thats over forget it.
2007-03-23 17:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get over it. Don't call him. Men always do that it's like part of there game. They do something wrong and then they cry about it after. You did the right thing.
2007-03-23 17:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 2 wrong dont make a right,, but you did show him how it felt, right,,,an real into day world who can say what men boy are ever girl are ladys will do,,,, i would call, an tell him thank you for the ofter, but i say we both need time to think,
2007-03-23 17:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm no, if you really want him to leave u alone u cant check up on him or he'll just think that u still care and he has a chance.
2007-03-23 17:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, that was harsh. And you should check up on him to make sure he doesn't do something stupid.
2007-03-23 17:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why are you concerned about someone who's treated you like crap? You owe him nothing.
2007-03-23 18:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by alexander_luthor69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would at least make sure doesn't do any thing stupid
2007-03-23 17:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by dark angle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋