My ex-bestfriend was intrested in my new bestfriends so she tried hanging out with them.The first time she tried me and my friends wouldnt notice her.Then a second time...no luck.But then somehing happened....She just started hanging around and they actually had fun with her! Then for 5 months and to this day she still hangs out with them. You guys will obviously tell me ignore it etc. But that doesnt work! I tried for 5 months!
Help me!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 10:01:07 · 13 answers · asked by SuperStar! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe talk to your new friends about this. If they are real friends, they would NOT do something that would deliberately bother you. If you have a hard time with them comprimising on this matter, say they won't stop talking to her, you need to make a choice.
That's all you can really do. Accept the fact that they are friends also, or decide you don't want to be friends with people that would do something to hurt you.
2007-03-23 10:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by nymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't tell you to ignore it, but I would suggest you allow your friends room to make up their own respective minds about whom they choose to befriend. You are making this about you, and the sooner you stop, the sooner you will be freed from worrying about something you cannot control...If you want to hang out with all of them, then do so. If you don't, then don't. If you want to just hangout with a few of them, set it up...you have free will as much as the next person, the worst someone can say is "no", right?
Move on honey...
Grace
2007-03-23 17:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have jealousy issues. You own no-one. If someone perfers another company then respect that and find a new bestfriend. There are lots of girls out there that would love to hang out. You are showing that you need to grow up and get a real life cause this is truly signs of immaturity.
2007-03-23 17:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Peggy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over this, why worry about something that you can't control. Life is not always fair, but somethings we have to except, and learn from it. Trust me God will put even more, and better friends in your path. So stop hating, and move on, and wish them all the best. You will be fine, if you can get over it! If not, the only one who you will be hurting is yourself!
2007-03-23 17:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly would act as if it didn't bother me. This ex-bestfriend could be just trying to get a rise out of you. The new friends probably aren't aware of what happened, if they aren't don't inform them. Just be yourself and don't lose your new friends. I would be the bigger person and just be so sweet to your ex-friend that it sickens her and maybe she'll get the hint.
2007-03-23 17:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by morgaine552002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm lmao I would beat ma bestfriend u kno what ut Find a new friend or tell you bestfriend how u really feel..
2007-03-23 17:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by YUP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you miss evaluating your friends , you mention them as the best but your question show that they were the worst , let them all go to hill . don't bother yourself , there is nothing in your hands to do , try to understand that being someones friend doesn't give you the right to control his acts , they don't need to explain to you their relationship , love is the only way to have someone , and be yours .
2007-03-23 17:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is she doing or what does she possess that makes them want to hang out with her? become friends with her.
2007-03-23 17:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn,t have anything to begin with.You could have been
married with kids,consider your self lucky.
2007-03-23 17:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by GARY R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have many best friends. Many. You won't even remember these friends someday.
2007-03-23 17:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Marc G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋