Shall i marry her?

Question

I got a lover. and we both asked our parents for marriage. But they refused because our horoscope didnt matched. I am going fight strong to marry her. Since her parents are very orthodox indian hindhu family, my struggle may fail. and my doubt is that shall i marry instead of horoscope mismatch?? i am very confused of hroscope and astrology.......

Love or Astrology??


Help me in finding my life..........

Answer 1

Love, all the way.

Answer 2

I would go with my heart unless I believed that there are some personality characteristics that someone under certain astrological signs exhibit that don't match who I was. It really does seem like something silly to focus on but I know people who will only date certain signs because they are easier for them to personally mesh with. You might want to talk to her and your parents about what problems they see the mismatch causing in your relationship. If those are things that aren't crucial to your relationship then them knowing that might make them reconsider. However, certain cultures do invest greatly in the astrology of a couple as basis for future happiness.

Answer 3

I suggest you find an alternate astrologer if possible. Sometimes one can find compatibility where others failed. Also - is she fully committed to marriage even if her parents disapprove? If she is not, it will not work. If she is, and if you can live without full family support (which is harder in some cultures than others), go for the marriage. When there are grandchildren, the grandparents may soften.

Answer 4

Ignore the parents. You were being polite and respectful by asking them, but in modern society that is just a formality. If her parents had a valid reason to oppose the wedding, like if you were a drug addict, cheater, etc., she might want to consider their advice. But they are opposing the marriage due to silly superstitions.

I understand the importance of religion and tradition, but your potential wife shouldn't listen to her parents' silly superstitions. If she refuses to marry you, you will be better off in the long run, because that will show that she is incapable of thinking and making decisions for herself, and you don't want to marry someone like that. Hopefully she is smart enough to make up her own mind.

Answer 5

Yeah, astrology is fakem and any scientist will agree. Check out the link below, it's an article from an actual astronomer, and it lists the scientific reasons why astrology is wrong.

Answer 6

Are you for real? Your not sure if you want to marry someone because of a horoscope? If you want to marry someone and you love them, then no horoscope should tell you not too. Sounds more like you do not want to and you are finding a reason to get out it.

Answer 7

If you are sure you can forgive each other for the tough time for both your relationship with your parents, marry her!

Horoscopes often err. Don't take them too seriously. Even if the stars are right - who knows if the people reading them, interpret them correctly?

Answer 8

If this is a serious question, you are an idiot and the answer is NO! She should not marry you. If you have doubts, then no way. Culture differences can put a huge strain on any marriage and it will never end. RUN!!

Answer 9

The way i see it if you really love someone you dont depend on a horoscope mismatch!I read my stars every day,,every other day they say im going abroad!Hello im still here and no i dont hav a holiday booked!

Answer 10

The reason is not the horoscope - its because your lover has been sold to someone else. How many jobs did you steal today?

Answer 11

since u already made love to her despite of horoscope mismatch, nothing should stop u now,