I met the love of my life, and it was at work. Things were perfect and she even came to see me for my birthday in a blizzard. An issue came up at work between me and a friend of hers. I've done everything my love asked me to do to fix it all, but now my love is standoffish from me and we've talked and figured out that if this is going to work i need to quit my job so we dont work together. I dont know if that will help but i am willing to try anything I have to get it back to the way it was to where she was head over heels for me. I dont know what to do
2007-03-23 09:51:09 · 5 answers · asked by jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she should ask you to quit your job.
And she is cold with you now only because you had an issue with a friend of hers at work??
I'm sorry, but nothing of this makes sense. It sounds like she is manipulating you. And quiting your job won't help at all.
I think you should think if she is really the person you want to be with. And only quit your job if you have something better. Or you could end up with no job and no girlfriend.
Good luck.
2007-03-23 10:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't worry about her. She made you quit your job, then there might be some issues of insecurities. You want to know how to treat this? Just ignore her and feel confident. You must wake up every morning thinking that you will have a very fine day, with or without her. You must think that there may be better opportunities at your new work place and just always stay positive. Giving it all to your woman is never the solution, it just makes things worse. You need a balance, and you must keep it. I think that it's the best solution, however, it may not be the easiest.
2007-03-25 14:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by kuklaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never go back to the way it once was, but you can grow together or you can grow apart. It's not really necessary for someone to be "head over heels" in love with you for you to have a satisfying relationship. In my opinion, you're better off to work toward a comfortable level of mature and secure companionship. I agree that it might be better for one of you to seek employment elsewhere, at least until the two of you are comfortable being in each other's presence for hours on end. Spending a little time apart will give you each the opportunity to freshen yourselves and develop a greater appreciation for the time that you do spend together.
2007-03-23 17:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I say never play with co-workers...it's just not very sensible for creating good karma at work and at home really. You need seperation sometimes to appreciate the other person anyways. Don't ever try to create visions of forced love with anybody either. You sound a little bit obsessed about this particular woman possibly. You might wanna get those feelings checked out otherwise. Women really aren't inclined to wanna be with men with syndromes. Women are sometimes like the weather here my friend. They're sunny one day...and stormy the next. You've got the idea on this now...right?
2007-03-23 17:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing with your head, dude...dump her...she will never be satisfied with you...she's just not that into you...
2007-03-23 16:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋