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I ended it after 7 years and I am sad I really wanted my ex to be strong and say hey come on we can get through our problems but instead hes being cold and he acts like its great news. Has he no heart after spending 7 years with me and is it really over? Just like that?

2007-03-23 09:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by Grace 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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No, he is upset--but he does not want to show you that because he wants to keep his pride. He feels hurt that you ended it--and of course he will have feelings for you if you were together for 7 years....when you have been with someone for that long it takes a long long time to heal--so he won't necessarily show that he is strong. He may not be ready to be friends. Good luck!!

2007-03-23 09:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0 0

Okay I just recently went through that...ended a 7 year realtionship with a man.

Men do not express things the way that we feel is appropriate. Just because he is not crying and breaking things...coming to your window at 3 am begging you to take him back does not mean that he does not care that it ended.

On the other hand, maybe he's feeling a sense of relief..maybe it was too much and he needed a change.

You ended the relationship...why do you expect some huge emotional dump from this guy.

You need to just move on. You ended the relationshop for a reason obviously...so let him go.

2007-03-23 09:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by tragedys_kiss 4 · 0 0

7 years is a long time. A long time to build up hate and resentment and maybe he stayed in the relationship because he couldnt think of a way out and when it finally ended he found his out if you know what I mean. Move on its over you had 7 yrs with him and Im sure since he is now an ex not all of it was great. He's moved on so should you.

2007-03-23 09:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0 0

It's possible he doesn't care. He might have been planning on ending it but was to scared so he waited untill you made the move. If he acts that way I would say it's really over and you should be relieved that you are rid of someone who obviously doesn't care about you.Or it could all be an act to make you jealous and try to get you to crawl back to him. With either situation, take your time heal and then find someone better. You don't need a jerk or a guy who's going to play games.

2007-03-23 09:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0 0

He cares he's just not going to let you see it. Let him be for awhile--he'll come around if he's still interested in you. Don't go contacting him! Seven years is a LONG time may be you just both need some space.
It might be over or it may not be. Time will tell. Just give yourself time to think and do what you want. Remember you broke up with him! You must have had a reason. Good Luck!

2007-03-23 09:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by ????? 7 · 0 0

If after 7 years he never asked you to at least get engaged, clearly there was something missing in the relationship. For he to be over you so quickly just confirms it.

Move on and look for someone that really wants to be with you.

2007-03-23 09:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

gee after 7 years..... maybe he really wasn't that into you and had trouble getting out of your r/ship. He could also be putting on an act - he maybe cut up inside and just pretending to be ok with it not to hurt you? Sounds like you should move on. He'll let you know if he really hasn't.

2007-03-23 09:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0 0

You ended it, right? Your mad that he's not sad? Did you want him to be sad? Is that why you broke up with him, to see him sad? You broke up with him. I repeat... you broke up with him! Did you think this through before you did it? Probably not...or you wouldn't be sad? Plus, you would be getting on with your life instead wishing or wanting him to be sad! Sounds like were playing games and it back fired.

2007-03-23 10:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0 0

ill bet its just that he doesnt kno how to act and he is just tryin to stay friends with u after a deep relationship was broken
just watch and see if he acts too nice or too cheerfull
thats a sign that he is suffering to

2007-03-23 09:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by provi43 2 · 0 0

He probably just does not like you anymore.

2007-03-23 09:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by sef567 2 · 0 2

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