what if talking to some one an physical maid for another mental no and your trying to act like them?

Question

I know be your self but im only humen you could only be lonely for so long hook ups cool but i dont wont to lower my standerds and go for what i can take advantege of..

Answer 1

not sure i understand your question, do you mean being physically attracted to someone, yet mentally you have nothing in common much,,,,,, so your decision is whether to be with them,,,,, which you feel lowers your standards,,,,, or to be alone,,? or even if you feel not so attracted physically,, the same could apply,,
its simply a decision you will have to make,,,, perhaps you should reevaluate your standards, are you placing too much importance on some things, not enough on others?
but bottom line, if you are not really comfortable with someone,,, for whatever reason,,,,,,, if you feel they are not up to your standards,,,,, then its usually best to just stay alone till you find someone more suited to you,,,,,,, as it will be hurtful to both you and them to be in an unequal relationship,,,,,,,,, that doesnt mean you must be totally equal in all areas,,,,, but it does mean you must enjoy the differences you have,,, whether physical or mental