I am very close with this girl. And we both like each other a lot, i plan on asking her out this weekend and I know she wants to go out with me so thats not what im worried abt.. BUT every time i call her she nvr aswers her fone, she always tells me to go on AIM but id rather talk on the fone... DOes she not like talking on the fone? shud i stop calling her, she seems to always tell me she wasnt near her fone when i called, then why doesnt she CALL ME BACK???? she always tells me to go on AIM (instant messenger) but i prefer phone, wt shud i do???
2007-03-23 09:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by 2kewl4skewl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to her on the internet. maybe her parents listen into her phone calls and she would rather just talk online. why do you care? you are still getting to talk to her.
2007-03-23 09:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hell if you spell this way on AIM as you did here I'd answer the damn PHONE myself. First off shes a girl that is a friend not a girlfriend. How old is she maybe she cant have calls after a certain time if she is young and living with her parents. Perhaps she isn't comfortable talking on the phone I cant tell you how many times there has been dead silence in some of my phone calls to men I dated prior to getting married and it is awkward. Do you ask her to call you back? If not then why should she assume that you want her too and furthermore what makes you think she has caller ID and knows for a fact that it is YOU calling. Personally if I called someone and they never answered their PHONE or returned my calls, I'd stop calling.
By the way learn to spell its not cute, its not cool and its not shorthand its ignorance
2007-03-23 16:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she shy or insecure? Sometimes it's easier to "write" to someone than to actually talk to them, as there are things you can write but can't bring yourself to "say" to someone. This may be her crutch. Give her some time to know you better talking on AIM for awhile. Maybe she will change her mind & talk to you on the phone then. If not, you need to ask yourself if this is how you want things to stay or find someone else.
2007-03-23 16:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by PJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on aim and ask her why she doesn't answer her phone or if she doesn't like to talk on the phone. I don't really like to talk on the phone. i can't let people know my feelings more on things other than the phone.
2007-03-23 16:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by katkgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she hates the phone? Maybe she is a super-chatter, and can't be bothered to carry on a conversation with only one person at a time. Maybe she doesn't want her mom listening. Maybe she doesn't want her boyfriend listening. Maybe she hates the phone. If that's a deal-breaker for you, fish on.
2007-03-23 16:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by eine kleine nukedmusik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt take it personally. There are alot of people who dont like talking on the phone, some people prefer texting or in your case she prefers to IM you.
2007-03-23 16:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever talked to her on the phone. If you've never talked to her on the phone... and have only talked online and never met in person. STOP TALKING TO "HER" IMMEDIATLY... Something is wrong. She might not even be a girl. Be careful of online predators.
2007-03-23 16:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just doesn't like the phone. Jeez! Give it a rest! Just do the freaking AIM and get over it.
Don't flip out. My gf does that, too.
2007-03-23 16:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the PHone (spelling please, it's not a hard word). Some women, believe it or not, do not prefer to talk on the phone, just like some guys don't. Get over it.
2007-03-23 16:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just a kinda shy. shy girls get nervous when on the phone rather than on the AIM.
2007-03-23 17:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋