if you try to come between the person you want and their present partner they could well end up hating you. if you really like someone then you will stand back and be happy for them. just be a good friend and be there for them if things go wrong.
2007-03-23 09:41:32
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answered by fushia 5
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I don't think it is wrong to to get rid of the other person. You just have to break them up by make the person you want want you more then the person they are seeing.
I would start flirting with the person and spending time with them when the other person isn't around so that they now how much cooler I am.
2007-03-23 16:43:30
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answered by Tiger 1
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well, don't kill them.
Be yourself around the person you want. I can't stress that enough. If someone starts to like the person you make them believe you are then they don't like you they like who they think you are. Confusing sentence I'm sorry...but anyway. Just be you and if the person you "want" really likes you then they will get rid of the other person for you, and all will be happy.
But lots of people (and this is not directed at anyone I'm just throwing it out there) get really offended if the person they like doesn't like them back. If this happens, turn your sights on someone else.
2007-03-23 16:41:19
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answered by Lola 5
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It would be best if you dont try to get rid of them at all. If you and the person you want are meant to be together, then eventually it'll happen. If you're not for each other, try to forget about it.
2007-03-23 16:40:45
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answered by Jess 2
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Yes, it is wrong. It is still illegal in most states to kill people.
Lies.
Seriously, folks, if everyone got to "get rid of" people who stood between them and a potential lover, don't you think we would all be dead before our 14th birthdays?
And just because you want someone doesn't mean she/he wants you.
Does it make more sense to tell someone you are interested, and leave them alone. If they are interested, too, they can come to you all by themselves. What a triumph!
Otherwise, you can get in wierd places and become obsessed, stalking, dangerous, and illegal.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Change your bait to get one you want, and listen to see if they are interested in you. Don't be attached to the outcome with others, be attached to living your life well.
2007-03-23 16:53:09
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answered by Lottie W 6
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if you try to control a situation by "wrongfully" forcing a break-up, then it may work in this situation, but beware, because you may be setting in motion the exact same thing happening to you at some future date, whether with this person or someone totally new. Treat as you would wish to be treated, and be patient; the person may tire of your competition all by them selves.
2007-03-23 16:40:31
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answered by develop_nyc 2
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First of all, you can't just off someone because they're dating someone you want. Next, how do you know that the person you want wants you? Maybe they're happy with this other person. Move on and find someone for you.
2007-03-23 16:39:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, "getting rid" of them is not going to make the person you like like you. If you cannot win the person you desire on your own merits then it is better just to find someone else who will liek you.
2007-03-23 16:39:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes it is wrong. If you respect the person you want, you will wait until they decide to end their relationship for themselves, if they ever do.
Also, if you have any respect for yourself, you won't get the person you want by sabotaging their existing relationship. If this person really wanted to be with you, they would be. Stealing them just means that you're pushing them to be with you, instead of them making the effort to be with you. If you have dignity you won't stoop like this.
2007-03-23 16:40:51
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answered by IQ 4
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yeah, get rid of them (everything is fair in ...)
how? not necessary to do anything illegal, just show the person you want that you are a much better deal for them. don't fall in the trap of putting somebody else down, just build yourself up.
2007-03-23 16:41:57
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answered by Anonymous
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