I have always though playing hard to get ment you will always get good guys but i have got no one. I have turned down about 3 people this year but one of them was suposaly a joke but now like 4 months later i decided i really do like that guy and he might like me back. Should i still play hard to get or what?
2007-03-23 09:32:07 · 22 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
games are stupid. if you like someone flat out tell them. if a relationship starts on games and lies it won't work.
2007-03-23 09:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get only goes so far. Sooner or later they begin to think that you don't really like them and begin to back down. That isn't good. Play hard to get for a couple of weeks and then tell him that you really do like him and would like to be in a relationship with him. Works most of the time
2007-03-23 16:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should play hard to get at the beginning when a guy asks you out, just to make sure he really likes you and will try harder, but you shouldnt continue to turn them down if you think that you would actually want to date them. Then no one will ask you because they will know that you always say no.
2007-03-23 16:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Namename 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its usually not good, for most guys. if a girl is playing hard to get its easy to tell from early on. I used to stick it out and see what would happen, but I, just like most other guys who smarten up, now just move on quickly once we sense any games and don't even waste our time.
if you play hard to get all the time, you most likely will end up alone or with a guy who just can't get any elsewhere and is going to stick around because he has nothing better to do but play your games. if you want an insecure guy who will be your slave, it may work for you.
2007-03-23 16:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by roberto lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.. No! Seriously don't.. The guy I'm dating? We broke up in December and got back last sunday.. And before we got back he asked me out thrice and I kept saying No and the same night as he asked me out, he took me out to dinner and told me "I'm not going to ask you out!" And I felt soooo bad.. Luckily it wasn't true, that's coz we had a history.. But playing hard to get can just cause you to look headstrong and make them forget about you!
2007-03-23 16:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Freakazoid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. It's deceitful and lying is never good. If you like someone, be honest and tell them so. Any other course of action and you shouldn't be surprised when things don't work out the way you had hoped.
2007-03-23 16:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get makes it seem like your too good so most people don't waste their time.
2007-03-23 16:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Todd C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no playing hard to get sometime have it's consequences. no need to play around with matters of the heart. but at the same time do not seem to eager. good luck
2007-03-23 16:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I notice a girl playing hard to get, I leave her alone because I don't have time for games.
I'm older than you though, maybe that works on kids...
2007-03-23 16:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety, getting a guy ,like fishing,, at first you get a lot of small bite, an they be the small one in the pond, but when they move out the bigger one move in,, so you got to wait, an the right guy come a long
2007-03-23 16:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, ultimately it's playing games. You can achieve the same effect by simply being discreet about what you choose to reveal about yourself.
2007-03-23 16:38:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋