My current boyfriend and I have been through a lot, but the long distance is killing us. However my friend (male) and I have been bonding more and more, and I feel undiniable sparks. I have not cheated but I can not help but think what it would be like to be his girl. Can I still love my boyfriend and fall in love with another man?
2007-03-23 09:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by roll model 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you can love 2 people at the same time. Although keeping it a secret from your long distnace bf wouldn't be such a great idea. I would give it some time. Just wait a while until you know for sure that you are making the right decision. I agree, long distnace relationships are tough. Personaly i could not bear to be in a relationship if i weren't able to see that person. I would go crazy. you need someone that wil be there for you. Someone that could hold you, and hug you, and care for you. Thats what relationships are all about.
They are not meant to be seldome visits.
2007-03-23 09:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by wrestlinguy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can but it probably is not the best plan. Since this current relationship that you are in is hurting you, go out to dinner a few times with this friend. Then talk to him about how you feel. If he is feeling the same way, then make an effort to be with him. Long distance is hard. I don't want to make you suspicious but things could be happening that you don't know about, and your boyfriend that you love so much may be lying to your face, well, so to speak.
This isn't cheating remember, just exploring your options.
2007-03-23 09:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely have feeling for your friend than you dont LOVE your current boyfriend...you can only romantically love on boy at a time..good luck, nicole
2007-03-23 09:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by xohollister_chicxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it adds complications to both relationships.
Check them both out in bed and pick the hottest one if you can't handle 2 loves at once.
Suggest a 3 some.
Drop them both and e mail me !
2007-03-23 09:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by arnyguapo2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...the answer to your question is definately no...if you love the first guy then the second would be out of the question...learn what love is before you enter a serious relationship...
ps: before you say to yourself "I know what love is".....no you don't
2007-03-23 09:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term relationships never work in the end! ur probably not in love with either of them! it would always be easier to date this guy who's closer! do what ur heart tells u to do!
2007-03-23 09:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM NO NOT REALLY B/C IF YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN YOU WOULDN'T BE IN LOVE WITH THIS OTHER GUY. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AND ASK YOURSELF IF IT IS WORTH YOUR TRUE LOVE OVER A GUY WHO U MAYNOT BE IN LOVE WITH JUST HAVE REALLY STRONG FEELINGS FOR
2007-03-23 09:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, leave your current and date the one your interested in
2007-03-23 09:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by iamcoreyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love many but itimacy belongs to only one..
2007-03-23 09:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck ya i had a bf and i still liked my best friend!! just go with who u think luvs u (more)
2007-03-23 09:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Live.To.Love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋