When you're not in a serious relantionship with some guy, and you had sex several times and then one day he says he doesn't want to, could it be the end or he can still change his mind?
2007-03-23 09:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by kate 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG, It maybe the end.
2007-03-23 09:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my question (below) may possibly answer yours. Trust me, sex in the media and movies, etc, is completely out of touch with reality. Before our minds embraced science, infant mortality made it necessary to procreate as fast as possible and that meant 'going at it' all the time.
It's difficult to conceptualize being "free" of constant sex. But the truth is, some intellectual stimulation is just about a billion times better. Can you honestly imagine any intimate climax being more perfect than the first movement of Mozart's 40th symphony? Better than Beethoven's 5th? More intense than reducing an entire economic quandary to a single Nash Equilibrium? Or a massive energy-related problem to the calculus?
So the guy found a higher plateau. Go THERE!!!! At least meet him halfway.
Recite Poe, or Shakespeare, or Nietzsche, perhaps translations of Don Quixote; draw comparisons between the Koran and the Torah; pop off with an insightful comment about the construction of the Taj Mahal. You won't be young enough for bunny-bump'n forever. Get that brain going.
You might just realize you've discovered people food and left dog food behind.
Have a happy journey!!
qwerty
2007-03-23 17:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its close to the end, but since your dealing with men, you still have a shot. Listen, you must be making yourself too available by the sounds of it. And not just sexually either. Guys like to chase too you know, a girl who holds off a little bit is attractive because it makes us chase you. For example not saying I love you ever time he does. Or not always be able to come over to his place. I don't know exactly how you two are living, or your relationship status, so to put is simply, give him something to chase AND NOT JUST SEX. You don't want him to want you just for sex do you? No, so don't always be availiable, play a little hard to get, a challenge, remember if sex is what you want, when he finally gets you then you better be prepared.... =)
2007-03-23 09:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by dieselmave40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just not be "in the mood" it is normal for a guy to say no to sex. don't stress over it too much. Talk to him about it. Make sure the two of you are ok. ask him to be completely honest with you. he'll see that it upset you and will give you a honest reason. be sure to approach him smoothly and in a controlled manor. DO NOT attack him (verbally) or in any threatening way. just relax and be sweet and be yourself in a serious situation. Things are going to be just fine. you'll see.
2007-03-23 09:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a serious relationship, guy said no to sex, he has moved on even though you seemed to be hoping for more.
2007-03-23 09:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him about it? I don't think it could be the end but I'm not him and I don't know what he's thinking. You would be better off talking to him about it rather than getting opinions from strangers
2007-03-23 09:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to have sex?
Maybe he wants a relationship. Maybe he doesn't want you just as a fck buddy.
Heaven forbid, he may care.
Talk to him.
2007-03-23 09:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by B-Rad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys dont ALWAYS want to have sex.
2007-03-23 09:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
quite ok
just get yourself some fresh new batteries
2007-03-23 09:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only guys i know that say no to sex with a girl are either gay or dead
2007-03-23 09:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋