well whenever im near one of my old freinds and we used to like eachother back in middleschool and i used to say i love her but im not really sure what i feel for her is love or infatuation i think it might be infatuation cuase first of all i dont trust her and when shes near me i try not to smile and my heart starts beating faster and harder cant help but think if my heart is trying to make me realize that i love this woman im 15,she makes me feel different when im around her and in the past my sister said that everytime she around me my face looks so intense what do you think please give me some honest opinoins
2007-03-23 09:16:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do think alot but not as much as my first love
2007-03-23 09:19:23 · update #1
I just think its a crush. I had one of those at your age too. You can't help but feel this way, I don't think its love because I don't think love is questionable, when you love someone, you know it.
2007-03-23 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW dude..you're 15. I'm sorry, but this could very well be infatuation. I'm 15, and have OFTEN questioned if I love the guy I'm with. Well, I know I like him just about as much as a Freshmen girl has the ability to, but is that love? I doubt it. I don't think we even know what TRUE TRUE TRUE love is until we're married. Because we not only see our love on the good happy days, we see them on the bad days, and trough depressing situations. Yes, there's such thing as intensity and hearts beating faster. It's called horomones. And you're more then likely not dating a woman, just a young lady. A young lady who seems to like you alot. and I know you like her...But you won't know it's love for a little longer...ok..alot longer
2007-03-23 16:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kenzie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id does sound like infatuation. That can be a real pain, but at 15 it's not so bad a thing. We all had one when we were young.
My suggestion is go for it. There are 2 possible outcomes. First, she likes you, you two hook up, and you get some.
The other option, she rejects you out of hand and your heart gets broken. That's one of the only two cures for infatuation, and by far the most effective. The other is Time, but that can take a while.
So go for it, and best of luck.
2007-03-23 16:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is infatuation. That is sorta what happened to me when i used to like a guy. Well, u might get over it...at some point.
2007-03-23 16:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still think that you have strong feelings for her hours after the effects of your orgasm wears off then you are in love with her.
If they do not last that long - then you are only infauated with her
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 16:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...she's not a woman...you are 15...secondly with love comes trust so you don't love her...move on Romeo
2007-03-23 16:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur only 15 get a grip! u don't love her! this is called p-u-p-p-y l-o-v-e! u have a crush! date her and get to know her before u even think about being in love!
2007-03-23 16:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 15 ... you most likely won't even remember this girl by the time you grow up and graduate college...
be cool...
2007-03-23 16:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RElax and let what eva happens happen geezzz your exhausting!
2007-03-23 16:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋