there is a guy friend of mine... we recently decided to try becoming more than friends because i broke away from my former love of 2 years...
we have been having sex and seeing eachother alot. i am really really starting to care about him... BUT, there is another girl in the picture. they were talking while him and i were friends. I have known him for 2 years and he has liked me for 1 yr and 1/2 and the girl knows i have feelings for him but thinks i am not acting on them...
she would NEVER do ANYTHING with him due to her religious beliefs...
should i continue this relationship or run as fast as i can?? because i know he cares for me but doesnt want to hurt either one of us!! HELP!!
2007-03-23 09:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Saritah Bonita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is going to have to choose between you and this other girl. If he loves you he will be with you and not her so dont worry.
2007-03-23 09:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it the right time for you to get into this relationship? you had broken out of your earlier affair, was the emotional void a reason for you to pick this "friend" as your lover? What does this other girl want of your boyfriend, is she serious about him too? if yes, the only reason she is OK with you being with your boyfriend is that she is unaware of your "ACTS" with him. moreover why get entangled into this relationship which proves to be messy? how far do you plan to take this relationship? Is your boyfriend reciprocal to plans? find out what your boyfriend wants out of this relationship. If its just the physical ACT then simply get away from it. You being the girl are only one thats going to get hurt if at all he plans to marry the other girl. All that will be left is one big broken heart.... "YOURS"... Get a life get some space... avoid anymore physical contacts and see if you and your boyfriend still need each other emotionally. then decide about how you want take this relationship forward. I wish you take a correct decision.
2007-03-23 13:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Philip G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't continue it. Stop being a ho. Premarital sex is never a good idea. Once or twice is understandable but you're regularly mating. Either get married or move on. Of course, you won't listen to this advice until you're old and gray, then you'll think back and say- Dang, I should have listened. Then you'll turn around and give the same advice to some future ho, and they in turn will not listen either. Ho, ho, ho. The future is coming. Er, wait, I mean, the future is inevitable. Yikes! That sounded terrible!
2007-03-23 09:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Troglodad 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are starting a relationship with him,so let her know that. If she wouldn't start a relationship with him due to her religious beliefs, the fact that he has a relationship with you shouldn't hurt her.
2007-03-23 09:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the situation to him. Tell him that you think you might love him and you want to know what he thinks.
DO NOT MENTION THE OTHER WOMAN.
That will make it look like your only motive is jealousy. you and I know that that's not true, but it won't look good. You can ask about her later.
Have a 'Plan B' in case he doesn't reciprocate your affections. It's a risk you'll have to take.
All the best!
2007-03-23 09:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should continue being with him if you really feel for him, but only if he stopped liking the girl
2007-03-23 09:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by khadεsia. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you he would have no trouble being with you and letting this other girl know about it. He is playing both of you....run for your life.
2007-03-23 09:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are You, and He is He...............If you are enjoying yourself, and are allowing yourself to be satisfied within the relationship, stay with it. If you are becoming emotionally entangled to the point, you will feel injured if he goes the religious route, get out............
I would recommend if you can enjoy yourself without EXPECTATIONS, Have Fun! If you possess Expectations, get out now.
2007-03-23 09:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by MeanderingMind 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If what your saying is he is cheating on that girl with you, then he isn't worth either one of you girls' time. If he's with you, then make a move and make it clear, so she knows, and so she will back off.
2007-03-23 09:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by browneyesoxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you wanted a guys opinion, a threesome would be the best way to figure out what his interests really are. Jus' sayin!
2007-03-23 09:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by USC MissingLink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋