Well, I'd like to start with; I'm really happy with myself, whether it's my body or my personality.. I'm a tomboy (Yes I'm straight). I'm 18, and I have a flat chest which of course doesn't bother me at all, infact I'm glad I don't have to wear bras and stuff lol. But some of my class mates always have to discuss about it, and this bothers me. They keep telling me that no person would be attracted to me because I don't have "boobs", I do tell them I'm not like them that present themselves to boys as a "plaything" and please them, I have a life and I don't need anyone to make me feel I'm special, I'm happy with myself and I don't have any complex. They do get p*ssed off but they never get tired barking up the same tree. What do I have to tell them to shut them up once and for all? I've never really bothered to find out how to grow my chest and all those stupid stuff, I'm really happy with myself, I just want those creeps to leave me alone..
2007-03-23 09:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
I don't even bother wondering whether I look attractive or not, I'm the "take me the way I am or see if I give a crap" type. All that bothers me is immature ones commenting on my flat chest.. I'm happy at least I'm not crippled or something, I don't think having a flat chest is that big of a deal, infact I'm happy, I just want to shut those pervs up :S
2007-03-23 09:48:26 · update #1
For those people, there will never be ANYTHING you can say to shut them up. It is unimaginable that we would pick on someone who was born with cerebral palsey, but yet people feel free to pick on other things about their classmates. So you have to know that making fun of you is simply a way for them to feel more secure about themselves...it really says a lot more about them, than it does about you.
As far as the issue. Just be certain knowing that men and women have all sorts of preferences - and many, many men see a lot more in a woman than her breasts.
After you get a little older, this stuff will all be behind you. For now, just smile and suggest you compare breasts in 40 years.
Good luck.
2007-03-23 09:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by c_schumacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They consider it a problem because the media want us to believe that a woman can't be desirable unless she has 'big boobs'. While it is true for the MINORITY of men, it's far from being a general rule. It is okay if you don't want to have a relationship at the moment, but when it changes (even tomboys fall in love :D), you mustn't think that you're unattractive because you don't have large breasts. Different men like different women, and be sure that there are men who find breasts like yours absolutely adorable!
2007-03-23 16:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why the he** are you looking at my chest anyway you PERV!"
2007-03-23 16:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by HS Sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋