My girl and I have been in a relationship for almost a year. She found a job last year in an ice cream company. The company post her to several outlets in a week. So she gets to work with multiple people at one time or sometimes just her and her colleague. So there's this guy who got to know her through work. After working for 2-3 times in periods of hours inside the stall with my girl alone, he fell for her. Being a very sensitive person, I started to doubt my girl and she told me several times, shes not interested in him. I m not very sure of how to tackle such situations. I m also cynical and pessimistic. So we often quarrel about her work. Soon he confessed his love and my girl told me she rejected him. But he is still coming on. I m not sure what is going on while they work. But I really feel unease when they work together. Asking her to quit would be too demanding actually. I really love her. I don't want to leave because of this. But I really am feeling miserable. I NEED HELP!!
2007-03-23 08:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by withering_blackrose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait a little bit and trust her.. If she see's that you are not bothered by it and she is a mature adult with feelings for you, you should not have a problem. I think it is just a phase in your relationship. It will pass... Good luck my friend!!!
2007-03-23 08:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understanding that you feel that way. I mean, this guy loves your girl and he gets to work with her quite often. But if you love her, you'll trust her. She told you she rejected him so you don't have anything to worry about.
2007-03-23 15:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She told you about him and his confessions. It sounds like she is being honest and open about it. I would just relax and believe her. If she hasnt done anything to make u suspect her, just relax and enjoy your relationship!!!
2007-03-23 15:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont confront her confront him. she is telling you that she does not feel anything for him and is not interested. now if you keep on doubting her and asking her then she'll get aggrivated and might even cheat. he's the problem not her!
good luck :)
2007-03-23 15:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust her. She told you that she rejected him so no worries.
2007-03-23 15:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by ☼♀♥♠♣B.M. ♫♪♦♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to have trust! constantly asking her about it will make her think you don't trust her. she rejected him so you shouldn't worry! and don't ask her to quit her job
2007-03-23 15:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust your girlfriend!!! she said she rejected him so you have to believe that she did
2007-03-23 15:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋