My best friend and i like the same guy. Last Friday night there was a party at the school. I had to leave early and my best friend stayed. She flirted with the guy we like. I am shy... too shy to even talk to him. So she does all the taking. Well, at the party he french kissed her and she let him. I don't know if I should be mad or not. Help!!!! if u have more ideas about this send me an email at tomboy_jazz@yahoo.com
2007-03-23 08:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by jazzy108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd be mad. u guys need to both give up on this guy...if u cant both have him then neither should have him becuase that will just ruin your friendship
2007-03-23 08:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well you said HE french kissed her... doesnt necessarily mean hes more into her than you... maybe shes just more approachable or seems like an easy target. This happens to all girls at some point, you cant be mad at ur friend. Let it go. Even let her have him and go find yourself a better crush that you wont have to worry about ur friend hooking up with. Also, dont be ashamed of who you are, you should celebrate being you everyday. No need to be shy, especially when it comes to something you want.
2007-03-23 08:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by LilMiss143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell yourself that your friend is hotter than you and you're just a what we call "shadow"... they will get together and leave you behind. now, what you can do is wait untill they are together and then ruin it by doing it with the guy... i bet you're too sissy to do that missy.... so get on with your life and i'm sure there's another guy ready to make a mistake and be with you. so there,... reality check. take care. i hope this helps.... hahha... i was just kidding.... it's not a big deal. don't be a fool! stay in school!
2007-03-23 08:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** yeah you should be mad! the same situation happened to me! i liked this guy paul and she had just met him that night and we were all drinking and well they had sex! soo we bearly talk now but you do what you think you should do!
2007-03-23 08:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by gottawantit17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you're in a pickle. You obviously wantred to do something with him, but your friend has just as much of a right to as you do. I say just get over it. Crushes and relationships never last forvever
2007-03-23 08:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First up, ask yourself who is bigger in your life, your friend or the guy! Secondly, tell her not to rub it in if you chose the first.. Thirdly, it's not her fault.. Trust me, in the real world, there are worse bitches!
2007-03-23 08:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Freakazoid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how was the kiss, and move on to a new guy.
2007-03-23 08:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by heather. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats too bad i would be furious if somebody kissed my crush!
2007-03-23 08:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by with The Vicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dosen't sound like a friend to me
2007-03-23 08:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud jus let it go becuz if he likes her he will b with her
2007-03-23 08:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Romance 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋