I am still in love with my ex, we split up over a year ago now. He's completely moved on with his life, has recently fallen in love again and all I can think about is him. I have a new partner now too but when we're apart it's my ex I think about. I miss him so much, I truely think he will be the only person I will love and it's unfair on my partner. I really need to sort myself out, I'm snappy and irritable because I can't have what I once had. I'm trying so hard to change but I seem to be failing, I want to love my new partner like I loved my ex. What can I do to get over him?
2007-03-23 08:11:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop obsessing over your ex.
2007-03-23 08:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, it appears that your current guy is rebound man and the ex's replacement. Maybe you went into another relationship before allowing yourself time to heal. Think about the reasons why it didn't work with your ex. He is an ex for a reason. I read the funny title of a book recently and it was..."It's called a breakup for a reason: It's broken"....start appreciating your new guy if he treats you good. If he isn't the one you need, then let him go and don't waste his time or yours. Be honest with yourself and not to be funny, you may want to see a therapist. It could help you to have someone unbiased to talk to about this. :) Hope I helped you dear :)
2007-03-23 15:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by MockingBird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to spend some time by yourself...maybe take a weekend vacation and think this all out. If your ex doesn't want to be with you then you are just wasting your time. Maybe this is a case of "if I can't have him I dont want him with anyone else either". Your the only one who can answer this.
2007-03-23 15:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep thinking about him wen your not with your current partner you got strong feelings for him do you want to tell him? or embarress yourself.by doing it?if hes with someone else just think "well im not with him anymore"so we got new lifes to lead,take a little break from the new fella and just remember that ex is past now and life goes on (i bet hes not crying in his pillow) lol good luck
2007-03-23 15:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your current boyfriend and let him move on with his life. It isn't fair to him that you love someone else. Sounds like you need to be alone to sort yourself out and get over your ex. You can move on with your love life until you get over him.
Good luck
2007-03-23 15:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by slim27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your partner have not done anything to make you completely his... i was on the same situation before... i just made sure that i was the best and the sweetest man this girl would ever know... and now... i'm the one that she can't forget. give your new man a chance to make a difference in your life.
2007-03-23 15:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be feeling this way...dear it just mean that u haven't found the right guy yet...now my suggestion like u mention u have a bf....ask ur self which kinda relationship u wanna have??? w/ur ex or ur current bf who treat u nice???
there's a reason thats why WE CALL IT "EX"....
this all up to you...dont worry everything will be fine i was in that same postion u are about 3wks ago...until i met this guy who treat me the way i wanna be treated...
so like i said u haven't found mr. right?? so hang in there...
2007-03-23 15:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move as far away as possible from your ex and dont try to contact him or find out about him. just completely cut him out of your life...you will eventually move on
2007-03-23 15:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget him .If your not together it is for a reason.Your partner(right now)aparently loves you so forget him you don't need him.
2007-03-23 15:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋