I now that maybe sounds strange,but when am in covarsation with someone i cant concentrate on his or her eyes.I look et him or her in eyes but it seems that i look somewhere else.So the other side look at me very strange ,probably said to him/her self that am not normal!What is going on with me?????Should i wisit the psicholog for that ???Please any good advice for me.???
2007-03-23 07:39:11 · 5 answers · asked by gordana s 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Try this trick. Look at one eye for a few seconds, then the other eye, then the mouth. If you have trouble looking people in the eye, this may feel more comfortable and they will feel like you are looking at them without staring. You may have Asperger's Syndrome. A psychologist could help you adapt so that your communications with others are better.
2007-03-23 07:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by angel_light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking someone in the eyes while they are talking to you is usually expected of you. However, if you are in a long conversation and the other person is doing the talking it is normal to look away at other things for brief moments as long as you return your attention back to the speaker so that they know you are not ignoring them.
2007-03-23 07:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice eye to eye contact with anyone you know or even people on the television. You know, a lot of us are eye to mouth contact people, meaning we look at the mouth during conversations rather than the eyes.
I have the same problem as you, sort of. I think I just get more "meaning" from a person's mouth expressions than their eye expresseions. But because I know eye to eye is supposedly better, I find myself going from mouth to eyes sometimes, up and down, up and down. and it makes people think something is in their hair, because they are assuming I am looking from thier eyes to their head.
2007-03-23 07:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should do a test at a school..........talk to your counselors. It can help you by letting you know if you have a short term of focus.................
If you don't like their conversation or their company it could be just that, although you are trying to be nice by listening, they are way tooo boring and anoying..........just don't hang out with them!!
Unless...............we are talking about a girl who is looking hella Yummy but is boring or talks about stuff you are not into, but then I just give you props for putting up with this b*tch but remember that if she does not put out with in three months tops, just move on cause is stopping you from f*cking other girls in your area...........................in fact I would not spend more than three weeks unless she is really hot and you think is worth the time!!!!!!
Good luck..................Oh, if you see at her breasts as long as you don't stare for the whole time, I think you are not alone!!!
2007-03-23 07:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice in a mirror
2007-03-23 07:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋