my boyfriend of 4 years use to tell me i was way to affective so i tried to control it but now he's telling me i'm to cold with him . i dont undersatnd want he wants. he dosent seem to know either cause all he cant tell me is to much or not enough. i don't know what to do to make him happy anymore. what should i do? everytime we talk about it we get into a fight cause he cant admit that most of the time he's to stuck on his xbox or some computer games.and anyway most of the time he says he way attention he just really want sex. he dosent like the attention that i want to give him , he just want what HE wants and he not willing to try to change a little.....
any suggestions????
ok that felt good , now i'm more happy!!!!!!
2007-03-23 07:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by marcnancy1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just dont want to leave him...we've been together 4 years and we been through a lot . and i do love him (even if he's a pain in the *** sometime !!) he very nice when he wants to. just not now....
2007-03-23 07:45:06 · update #1
from what i know about men and relationships he is just not happy and trying to blame you for it. men dont seem to like to acknowlege they are wrong or at fault and dont want to have to change at all. however, you shouldnt have to either. if this is not what you want stand up for yourself. if you want to be affectionate then find a man who loves that. not one who only wants sex and video games (i love video games so nothing against them) i recently saved myself from a man who wanted me to change for him and afterwards he finally admitted he may have done me some wrong after all (duh!) men think that we will always be there for them and do whatever they want because we are like their moms, always loving and always doting but yelling at them to clean their rooms. dont be a mom, be a woman and be yourself. *hugs*
2007-03-23 07:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Greenchylde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. I dont know u but i think u deserve a man who appreciates ur affection. you shouldn't have to control it. And then for him to change it up and make it look like ur in the wrong....is ridiculous. As u can tell i feel really strongly about this issue and I don't like ur bf. lol. sorry
2007-03-23 14:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him ur 2 good 4 him
2007-03-23 14:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Depressed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants to use you for his physical pleasure...I'd say get out of there and find someone who wants you for who you are, not what you can offer.
2007-03-23 14:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of his asssss
2007-03-23 14:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Candy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** total jerk!
2007-03-23 14:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by megan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋