My BF and I are getting married July 14. He is 36 and I am 25. We have been trying to have children for 4 months(unsucsessfully). At 1st I thought I wanted that but now I'm not so sure. We've been together for almost 3 years. For the first 2 and a half years I was begging for Children and he was'nt ready . Now he is and I'm not. I'm confused of why I had a sudden change of mind. I don't know if it is b/c Ive had time to think about the future or I got tired of being the one who was asking or if maybe I want something more than marriage and kids. I've even thought that I may not love him as much. I don't even like saying that b/c I don't know what I would do without him. Please help, I'm so confused!!!!
2007-03-23 07:25:30 · 3 answers · asked by jesakah_myers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is just because you are nervous, u want a family that takes alot of work to take care of some one and it can be very nerve racking when it is your responsibility and u r getting married soon every one gets nervous it just means that you care alot it's nothing to be afraid of every one gets nervous you just cant let it rule you
2007-03-23 07:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by door knob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have to wonder if you are in love with him than i would have to say that you are not.If it is true you wont have to wonder.And as for as not being able to imagine being without him you've been together for 3 years it is called comfortable.I would wait for the kids.Trust me if you find Mr.Right you will know it.I think that maybe you have discovered he is'nt Mr.right.I'd maybe consider taking a little time out..of the relationship that is.You are'nt ready.I met my husband 20years ago and there was no doubt in my mind that this was the father of my children and the love of my life.
2007-03-23 14:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him, the right thing will happen at the right time
ur trying too hard
stop thinking about it
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good luckk
2007-03-23 14:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by x0 swim chick 0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋