My BF and I are getting married July 14. He is 36 and I am 25. We have been trying to have children for 4 months(unsucsessfully). At 1st I thought I wanted that but now I'm not so sure. We've been together for almost 3 years. For the first 2 and a half years I was begging for Children and he was'nt ready . Now he is and I'm not. I'm confused of why I had a sudden change of mind. I don't know if it is b/c Ive had time to think about the future or I got tired of being the one who was asking or if maybe I want something more than marriage and kids. I've even thought that I may not love him as much. I don't even like saying that b/c I don't know what I would do without him. Please help, I'm so confused!!!!
2007-03-23 07:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by jesakah_myers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then just stop trying, tell him right now because of the stress of the wedding and everything else, you just want to wait a while. Im sure that when you are ready, he will be too. Focus on the wedding right now, those are stressful. So have fun. Dont let this get to you. Good luck
2007-03-23 07:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-23 14:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by quasi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! u r way in over your head. well, i'd talk to him about your problems. yall need to work this out. whatever you do DONT get married if you're still thinkin this when that day rolls around. put it off for as long as you need to, if not forever. really look down deep inside and listen to your heart. that's about all i can say. good luck!
2007-03-23 14:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have kids right away. Marriage is an adjustment. Allow yourself time to make that adjustment.
2007-03-23 14:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your getting cold feet
2007-03-23 14:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by sue h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, not us.
And be honest, even if that means admitting you're not sure why you feel the way you do.
*High five*
2007-03-23 14:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋