they have kids together-he says she would make his life miserable if she knew
2007-03-23 07:22:48 · 23 answers · asked by Jel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he still wants her, or maybe loves her. he hopes to have her back someday.
2007-03-23 07:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who's been in the same situation. My now ex boyfriend has a child with his first love but he never told her about me and we were together 3 years! He says he just didn't want to hear her mouth but ask yourself this...if it is over between them he should have no problem telling her about you. He is probably still having relations with her. Don't be deceived by this man. People use to say it shouldn't bother me if his ex's knows or not but it does so I understand. Talk to him and tell him how you feel:-)
2007-03-23 07:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's also possible that he never broke up with her and you are the "other woman" who he is just having a fun time with.
Secrets are unhealthy and poisonous to relatioships no matter why they are kept. If the guy is not man enough to tell his ex girlfriend that he is dating again, then he has serious problems, or is a player. Either way, you need to take a hard look at whether you should be with him.
2007-03-23 07:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Wolverine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly why. you should know how crazy women get. she could do something like not let him see his child. This is actually a good thing for u because she might try to come after u if she finds out that ur his new gf. I think u need to be a little more understanding and u probably have nothin to worry about.
2007-03-23 07:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? If it's only been a few weeks and you aren't really serious then it makes sense, she doens't need to know all the details of his life. Now if you two are walking down the isle next month then he should tell her so that they can discuss it with the children.
2007-03-23 07:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she still has the power to make his life miserable, then he still cares about what she thinks. Thats a dangerous line to play on.
2007-03-23 07:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Groan. Is that what you WANT to believe? I'd hate to burst your bubble if you are in denial and just want someone to tell you that it's okay. If that is the case, don't read any further. STOP right here.
He won't tell her because either a. they still have something going on or b. he stills wants something to be going on with her.
2007-03-23 07:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its either that he stills has something with her, or that he really doesn't want her to make his life a living hell... but you should talk to him and tell him how you feel, is he suppose to hide this relationship forever? the ex has to understand that if they are not together he has to move on with his life
2007-03-23 07:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by - -YeSseNiA - - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be telling the truth i mean when I was young and my mom found out my dad had a girlfriend she didn't let him see us when she was around my mom was just jelouse and whatever it took to make sure he wasn't happy without her just cause she wasn't without him. Well I may be assuming but it could be the same situation with your bf
2007-03-23 08:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by ?????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is telling you the truth, she could try to make his life miserable....but only if he lets her.
2007-03-23 07:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by † Walk by Faith † 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's really his ex? He may still have feelings for her. Be sure to ask him if he does and be very attentive to his answer. You should be sure of his feelings before you get more involved with him and end up getting hurt.
2007-03-23 07:31:06 · answer #11 · answered by typre50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋