What is she thinking?????

Question

Previously few months back i express myself to my crush about my feeling. She told me she was not really to commit any relationship after she fall out of one 9 mth back. She don't know for the future but she did not reject me totally. I told her i will not give up.

recent few mth she sounded so cold. whenever i text her(I becoming the first one to text her always). she will reply in short. like ok, lol. thanks.(That was not the case when many month back) I often send her fav stuff like chocolate. I wake her up daily for work. During Xmas i send her present. And V-day i sent her flowers. When she is sick lately and resting at home, I send her some movies and soup.

I am very hurt by the way she acted. I feel she is not interested in me. but i can't forget her and move on. She stole my heart. But when i ask whether the next day she need my wake up call. she would say yes which means she is not avoiding me.

Why is she behaving so cold.? Any reason? play hard to get? Pls Help.

When i did not give her wake up call. she never text or call to ask why.

Answer 1

BECAUSE YOU ARE BEEN TOO NICE TO HER...STAY OFF HER BACK FOR ALEAST A WEEK AND YOU WILL NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE. WHEN SHE START TO NOTICE HOW TIRED YOU ARE GETTING OF HER LACK OF INTEREST IN YOU, SHE WILL REALIZE THAT NICE THINGS CANT BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED. BE AN AZ ONCE IN A WHILE BELIEVE OR NOT WE LIKE THAT... YOU ARE IMPORTANT AND SHE NEEDS TO SEE IT,BUT YOU HAVE TO SHOW HER THAT
SO SHE CAN SEE IT TOO. BE UNAVAILABLE
AND OUT OF HER REACH. THATS WHAT WE WANT AND GO FOR....GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

It sounds a little like you're just giving her too much right now. It might be making her uncomfortable to have you so into her and showering her with gifts and attention. That is usually not the best way to win a girl. The reason she still wants the wake-up call could just be a matter of necessity and the fact that she still is your friend. She wouldn't avoid you altogether for trying too hard. But I would suggest maybe letting up on the gift giving and just be a good friend for a while. Realize that she may never want to be with you and just be thankful for the friendship you share.

Answer 3

She is not interested in a relationship with you other than friends. If she says "no" when you ask about the wake up call, she will feel like she hurt you, and she doesn't want to do that. Just ease up on the texting, calls etc. She may come around, but that is not what she wants right now.

Answer 4

Bro you need help she doesn't LIKE YOU AT ALL, SHE DOESN"T LIKE YOU... ARE YOU WITH ME SO FAR... She is really trying to let you down easy but she is hoping to get get the hint and leave her alone forever. Dude there are tons of girls out there for you just find one that likes you it is a lot better when a girl is after you than the other way around. Stop buying her things and get over her by talking to other more better looking girls OK. Good luck

Answer 5

Hmmm...very interesting. You know what i would do, 1 day i will not give her a wake up call, and see if she will call u back and ask why u did not wake her. See if she is concerned about u or just demanding an answer. If demanding an answer....sorry to tell but she is using u and taking u for granted. If concerned.....u know what it means. Good luck!!!!

Answer 6

I hate to say it...but I belief she's just not interested...
If she wanted to be with you, she would have said yes to you with in the week you spilled all your feelings out to her...From X-mas to V-day? That's quite a long time, By this time you should already take the hint that she's just not interested...I know heart ache is tough, but Hun we all have to go through it someday or maybe even a lot of days...It will take some time for your heart to hill but sooner or later you wont even remember her last name...Just avoid her, like she's been doing with you....Who knows? Maybe all she needs is some time away to get her head straight? Only time will tell....Until then....just live YOUR life & let her live her's....

Good luck

Answer 7

two things... she not interested in you or she interested on some other guy.

Just talk talk to her and tell her what you think and if she says shes not interested in you just move on, theres more girls who are way better than her and that would really appreciate what you do to her instead of some one who really cares.

Maybe she thinks your bothering her.

She is not worth wasting your time and money.. shame on her for not telling you since the begining.. maybe she hasnt tolf you nothing because she was to keep reaciving all those presents from you.

Just do this and yul see everything will work out.

Answer 8

From what it sounds like, you may be pushing her too hard towards liking you. It sounds like she may just want to be friends for a while and she likes you a little bit, but she is turned off by the way that you keep wanting her to be your girlfriend. The probelem is, you have to let her come to you. Don't make her feel as if she has to do anything and let her think that it is her choice, not yours. She may need a little space. Just cool off for a while.

Answer 9

Eddie, darling. She's not being cold. She's just using you. Hey! You are always ready to give her anything she needs, right? I know someone who is just like her. You see, these chicks hv expectations. Maybe you don't hv what it takes to be her man and she knows that. But, she does not hv her prince charming yet. So, you wl do for the mean time. Get the hint? Go out, spend more time with your buddies.

Answer 10

Sounds like u may have come on too strong. She might need some space, so just give her some time. If you care that much about her, be the best friend you can be, but don't make her ur only option.