Well i loved a girl almost 1 year and half and all i had to do is seeing her and she recognized that!! in parties and she is with me in the school me and her are 15 so my friend decided to help me with some information from my girlfriend's friend and she told us that she know that i love her but nothing and she took my email from her friend but never added me :( recently i talked to her but gess what i talked to her about her study with german (yuck!) and in the lastest school party she asked me to join her friends in thier game(they were throwing water balls on our teacher so i joined them and my teacher hit me he was kidding of course) so after that i talked to her a stupid talk but i feel very shy and nervous talking to her so is it normal if i took her email(asking her on the hi5) and talking to her n the messenger or what i have to do to get friends!!
note: i am not handsome
2007-03-23 07:01:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of girls LOVE shy boys. it can be very refreshing and make us feel like you are more genuine than other boys. If she's not giving you any attention, you might want just be friends and see how that goes. If she ignores you completely and won't be friends, then you will have to let her go. Ultimately, u have to decide: is she worth it? Whats the worst that could happen, embarrassing urself or living with the regret that u never tried?
2007-03-23 07:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by rachel in vancouver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 07:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by livesay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is semi-confusing, but I guess what you're saying is that you have known her for a long time and... you want to date her? Well, that's an age old problem for everyone! Girls included! Sometimes you just have to sit and think ahead of time what you want to say to her and prepare yourself. Then, the next time you talk to her, you will be ready with something to say! There is no easy way to overcome being shy, take it from me, I'm shy too!!! The only way to get over it is to go outside your "comfort zone" and open your mouth and be the best guy you know how to be! ^_~
Good luck!
2007-03-23 07:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sammeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh! i would say that u should go 4 it and ask her out, but if she knows u like her and hasn't done nething, i won't take that road. befriend her . let her get 2 know u, then mayb tell her face 2 face how u feel. but don't just sit there waiting 4 fate 2 drop her into ur lap. do something and b active in the chase.
2007-03-23 07:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,don't ever say your not handsome. if you don't have faith in yourself who will. all you have to do is get used to talking to girls.and don't ever go up to a girl without knowing what you will say. most girls don't care how boys look(well some do) but 70% of what a boy need to have is a nice personality. you have to be brave.
2007-03-23 07:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel shy when you speak to someone you like. Try with e-mails or letters to tell her how you really feel.
2007-03-23 07:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by nikki H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.it's normal. alos, don't be afraid. girls are just as afraid to approach you guyz. i bet u feel the same way.......and it feels good to have a couarageous man who can break the ice!
2007-03-23 07:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by hi! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it.most women are just as nevous as you are.
2007-03-23 07:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by nathan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋