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I have loved this guy 4 awile. He is my best-friend and Im messing up in school because I think about him all the time. How do I forget?

2007-03-23 06:57:14 · 20 answers · asked by Rocker_chika 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

20 answers

Good question

I fell in love with my best friend. She and I fell in love with each other. We started a relationship. Later, a guy entered the picture that we both fell in love with and he with us. A long time later, I had to leave that relationship because of how they treated me.

I still think of both of them all the time. Worse, I run into them at the dojo all the time.

Being in a place where you never run into your loved one helps, but other than that, only time will help.

I've run into people I fell in love with 20+ years back, it still hurts to see them. You never completely get over someone you fell in love with. At least I don't.

2007-03-23 06:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1 1

I'm going through this exact same thing now. Here are some of my thoughts and some of the advice that I've received through Yahoo: be with your friends, let yourself feel and release the emotions, don't listen to music for awhile, date someone else, do something for yourself EVERY DAY, say "stop" out loud when your mind starts to think of him. Most importantly, take one day at a time. They say you will you will get over him and I wish you good luck. I am practicing all of these steps every day for the past month and I do think it's working ! Be strong, there is someone else that you will be able to share your happiness with out there.

2007-03-23 14:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 1 · 2 1

It won't be easy to forget the one you had loved. But when ever you start thinking about the guy, go to play some tiring game or try to keep your self busy in other activities that requires deep concentration.(for time being)
try thinking some bad qualities about that guy or just leave it upon time.

2007-03-31 13:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by ronald 1 · 0 1

You don't. But for the sake of your education you must. You need to get him out of your system. The thing is that you have not really spend time with him. You're just thinking about him all the time. Spend some quality time with him. Tell him what's going on. That is if you're with him. Or is he just a best friend and you're dreaming of having more. Any way you need to get him out of your thinking of him all the time. That is not healthy. You can do it. That is if you really want to.

2007-03-23 14:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

That is a good question

You really cant forget about somebody you like its so hard believe me i have tried .I take a class with this person .I would just think about something else more often

2007-03-31 13:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 0 1

Time is what it takes..make sure you have lots of friends around 2 cheer u up.

2007-03-31 13:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0 0

Concentrate on your school work. If your messing up in school I'm sure your parents will help you forget!

2007-03-23 14:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1 1

if you are truly in love with him you wont ever forget him , you just have to keep in mind there was a re son u are not with him anymore, over time it gets easier , time really dose make things easier to deal with ,and we learn to deal with our disappoints better.

2007-03-30 16:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

wow i know that feeling you really just need to focus on something else and realize its not gonna happen and in time you will but it takes time lots of time and maybe even a few tears but you will move on i promise

2007-03-23 14:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

welcome 2 my world. my advice? do something about if u can. (my crush happens to b my best friends bf, so i m sentenced 2 silence) wat i'm trying 2 do is balence. allow myself 2 think about him a little, but keep taking notes @ the same time. when doing homework, i turn up the music, crushing that kind of thought. good luck!

2007-03-23 14:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by lily 2 · 1 1

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