Okay, so you're in a relationship and things are pretty steady. You've been in this relationship for quite some time. You can really see yourself with this person, you have quite the promising future. BUT, things are pretty dull. And you're wondering what else is out there. You: Don't think twice, ditch your companion and set out for adventure. OR you decide to be sensible and commit to one person.
2007-03-23 06:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by Proud mommy2be 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you commit to one person, every relationship gets old, my bonfire analogy.... the flame will go out unless you keep putting kindling in to feed it, same with a relationship, keeping it exciting, the other alternative is to keep jumping because every relationship has it's dull, commit to someone worth it, anything worth getting and keeping is not easy
2007-03-23 06:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by syd p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would committ to the person first. All relationships get dull at some point. Love starts off very strong at first and then it fades and if you wait a little while it comes back and then repeats that over and over again. I try to put more effort into spending time together doing things that aren't normal parts of our lives. We would go to the movies or to an amusment park or something like that in order to give relationship a boost. If after some time of trying to make it work nothing had changed, I would sit down with my partner and talk to her/him in order to see what they wanted out of the relationship and to tell them how I felt. If we couldn't make some real progress there then I would move on and explore other things. Just make sure that the person who you are with is really someone who you care scared to leave because they give you stability. They never works out and if you are depending on someone else for stability you are already messed up. If you really care about the person and will be with them through hard times then you know what to do.
2007-03-23 07:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself, do you love this person? If you do, then maybe you should commit and try to enhance the relationship. As long as you see something within the relationship worth saving, go ahead. Wouldn't it make you feel better to try and work it out, rather than 3 or 4 years down the road thinking, I should have stayed with her, or I wonder what would have become of us?
2007-03-23 06:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose commitment, and have been Blessed with a Wife who is my Best Friend, and my Greatest Love for 10 Years !
2007-03-23 06:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would commit to the person. Go on a trip or something. Spice things up. Take dancing lessons with her or something. Find a common hobby you both enjoy. I have been in the same boat myself. We took salsa dancing lessons with eachother. It really worked.
2007-03-23 06:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that sooner or later if the relationship is boring you you will end up leaving. I say to you let it be now and not when you are married with 3 or 4 kids. this is something that needs alot of thinking.
2007-03-23 07:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sensible and commit to the person... If you really love them
2007-03-23 06:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Scared 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I commit with one person
2007-03-23 06:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nows the time to find yourself. Do not commit if your hearts not in ti!!! Take a break....I'm sure your friend is feelin the boredom too then.
2007-03-23 06:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commit. Good relationships aren't expendable - you can't buy them at Walmart - don't take it for granted.
2007-03-23 07:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋