Ok, so I have a flat tummy and somewhat muscular build and big chest. My BF is trying like crazy to get me to buy a 2 piece bathing suit. I told him no because I have streatch marks on my tummy from having kids and no one wants to see that. I think it is in appropriate he says it is part of me and doesn't matter and I am hot and should show it.......which one of us is right?!
2007-03-23 06:45:12 · 28 answers · asked by supergoober 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is all about how you fell about yourslef and what you think about your body. If you know in side yourslef that you look nice go for it. It is up to you.
2007-03-23 07:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rob Dog 3088 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is not a right or wrong decision. This is how you feel about your stretch marks. I personally wear a bikini and I have two children. Thankfully the stretch marks have faded. I also had a c-section and am grateful to have the scar right above my hair line. Perhaps you could compromise with your boyfriend. Purchase a bikini and a full piece. When you are at home in the yard, wear the bikini for the boyfriend. When you are out at the beach, wear the full piece for your peace of mind. Thank you and may GOD bless.
2007-03-23 06:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If youve got it flaunt it! I have stretch marks on my side and a flat tummy and if you pretend it isnt there and act confident then thats what will make you hot! If you want to conceil them as best as you can, I find that indoor tanning works to make them less noticable but if you don't agree with indoor tanning try a self tanner or conceiler. Good luck!
2007-03-23 06:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how you feel about yourself. If you have a toned body and are comfortable in a bikini then wear one. Stretch marks are a part of our lives. Who cares what other people think
2007-03-23 07:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by cammi267 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
RE: Are... larger (fat) lady plenty extra possibly to get stretch marks, or skinny women whilst preggers? ok so i assumed approximately it and that i think of that wouldn't skinny lady better than possibly get them because of fact they're little and their epidermis stretches plenty?? while fat women are like.... already larger so their epidermis is stretchy??
2016-10-20 07:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone over 12 has stretch marks somewhere, even guys, it's just a part of life. My boyfriend has them on his hips from when he went from 5'5" to 6'2" over one summer. If your guy says you look hot, then trust his opinion and wear it, and be glad you have a guy who thinks you're hot despite little flaws. :)
If people you don't know don't like it, they can go stare at the 300 pound woman wearing the thong at the other end of the beach!
2007-03-23 06:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
A self confident woman doesn't have to fret about her body, that's left for those who have troubling emotional issues that go beyond what their bodies look like. If your bf is trying to get you to do something you don't want to do then it is your right to tell him no and he should respect that, if not then you've got the wrong boyfriend or you've got a Master and you're his slave doing whatever he wants you to do.
2007-03-23 06:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know SO MANY thin people who still have stretch marks, even those who've never even been pregnant. Some people are just better at hiding them. I wouldn't worry about them because I would guess that about 80% of people have them. Hey, you EARNED those marks!!
2007-03-23 06:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
He is by far right. I am sure your stretch marks are not nearly as noticeable as you think they are.
There is no reason not show off your good looks just because of stretch marks.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-23 06:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All I know is that if I was at the beach and saw you with stretch marks, I would definitely be thinking you should have a different swimsuit on. Face it honey, when we have kids our bodies change.
2007-03-23 06:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋