does a girl being shy in bed a turn on. not shy about doing things more shy about her body even though she has a nice body. i have a nice body but for some reason i shy when i have sex with men. i cant even look them in the eyes. but im not shy about doing kinky things. also if a women stripped before sex is that a turn on? if she was to rub her self a little?
2007-03-23 06:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shy=girls
brb .. (need to shower now)
2007-03-23 06:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually shy girls in that situation are less attractive. Girls apparently know what to do in bed, that is the general consensus. So even if you don't or get shy, use it. Use the lack of eye contact to you advantage, always appear like there is something you could and would do if you wanted. Because then it's his job to make you want to. But being shy during sex may send the signal that you are not having fun or are basically un-interested. So definitely try and not show it. Or you could experiment with public activities. Basically, if someone is afraid of heights going on a 9 story building will make there 3 story house less nerve-wrecking.
2007-03-23 06:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is fine. You hint that you are uninhibited. If your comfortable keeping your eyes closed, keep them closed. It is nice if when being given a bj that the girl looks at you but it not necessary. Stripping before is certainly a turn on for me, however I would prefer to do the rubbing myself.
2007-03-23 06:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by Contented 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure shy matters one way or the other. Doing kinky things and rubbing yourself and having the man rub you are definitely turn ons.
2007-03-23 06:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by scooba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you certainly sound like a wild sex kitten, but if you can do all these kinky things, why can't you look at them? Its because you don't love them. By the way, I love being tied to a chair while a woman does a strip tease!!!!!!! HOT!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 00:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by tyemetght814 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Variation is what men (and women) want and will keep them from experimenting with others. Be shy sometimes but dominate sometimes; strip before sex but let him undress you sometimes; be gentle but be rough. We like it all just don't be prdictable and routine or we will get bored and move on.
2007-03-23 06:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by Homeless in Phoenix 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi jessica, something you are saying doesnt make sense...if you really are shy how do you strip and play with yourself while he is watching? Of course those are turn-ons. And one thing that would bother me is the lack of eye contact...it would make me think you are not into it or that you are thinking of something or womeone else.
2007-03-23 06:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably pretty young, and it seems that you lack a bit of self confidence. Stand up girl. You know what I find amazing about women (specially the beautiful ones)? It´s that they really have power over me... Something like magic, every girl has it... Be confident. That´s my only avice...Then you will be apt to achieve heavens!
2007-03-23 06:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Gabriel G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love when a girl strips for me and plays with herself. it really turns me on. i dont like shy girls though cause it makes me feel like there not interested in me
2007-03-23 06:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have turned me on just reading this! if u rubbed yourself alot that would be a turn on too! stripping is stupendous! u should let us know how sexy of a body u have too
2007-03-23 08:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by hot_john_dog2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Mother of God !!! Do you really have to ask that? Like the other woman said we're men, you had us at hello.
2007-03-23 06:48:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋