i met this girl about 7 months ago, she is canadian but her company sent her to work here in france for a year, anyway when i met her she told me that she has a boyfriend back in canada and they've been together for almost 5 years.
i didn't show her any interest and we started running into each other because we are in the same circle of friends and then we became very close and there was chemistry and so we agreed to become "Friends with benefits" but then we became even closer! and there was so much passion, and then she says she wants to be exclusive and we started dating for a while
at this point she tells me that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend even before we met.
so now she went back to canada to break up with her 5 years boyfriend and she'll be back in a couple of weeks
here's my dilemma:
did she hook up with me just to make it easier for her to break up with her 5 years or was she really interested???? and when she comes back should i give her some space or date!
2007-03-23 06:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by Slash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had to go back there because they were living together and she needed to take her stuff out of his place, and you can't end a 5 years relationship with a phone call!!!
but yes, she confessed to have had break-up sex with him!!! and she told me that i can sleep with other girls while she is away!!! God, i feel like a sucker!!!
2007-03-23 06:33:28 · update #1
For her to say at the end that you can sleep with other girls while she is away...
Does that sound like a keeper? Great sex is what it is, but real love CAN'T see anyone else but you...
2007-03-23 06:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...her boyfriend probably told her not to have sex while she was in France. I would just be worried if I were you. Clearly she's not faithful. If she cheated on a guy she was with for 5 years...what makes you think she's not going to cheat on you as well?? I mean...she was sleeping with you while her boyfriend trusted her...THEN...after all your passionate 'love making'...she goes home and screws him!!! Break up sex or not...I don't care what you call it...she didn't love you enough to tell him "No...I love Slash and only want to be with him." I'd kick her a$$ to the curb.
2007-03-23 13:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i read your whole story i could see very easily that she has already showed you that she won't be faithful to you either. she was not faithful to her previous, (if she really wanted to stop with him seriously , she would have done it before meeting you, she is hooking up to you). even nowshe is notfaithful to you and she admits it, and i promise she wont be in the future. so bif you wanna go on with her , you'd better have this in mind that do not start something serious, cos' she will some day do to you what she has done to his previous. if i were you i wouldn't date her anymore, cos' to her men are only sexual objects, not humans.
2007-03-23 13:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...I think she was using you to get up the nerve to dump her boyfriend. I know I wouldn't give someone permission to have sex with other girls. I am just being honest, hopefully it doesn't hurt your feelings. She was using you dude.
2007-03-23 13:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by troublz1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space to forget about her ex-bf. 5 yrs is a long time and she must have had many memories of him.
2007-03-23 13:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a nice thing! Date her......she decided that she was done with her previous relationship herself and now you need to RELAXand njoy the compatibility :)
2007-03-23 13:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can have break up sex with him and you ccant i think she used you to help get rid of her bf srry but if you disaagree and oyu think she didnt then i think you should go for it
2007-03-23 13:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ending it then end it. That is my advice ok.
2007-03-23 13:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... well are the two of getting back together!!!!!!!!!!!
keep us posted... eh?
2007-03-23 13:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋