Does it hurt the first time, bleeds or does it just slip right in? ( be honest everyone) I haven't done it yet(i'm saving myself) but i just want to make sure of whats gonna happen on that special night.
2007-03-23 06:32:53 · 6 answers · asked by ruth m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it does hurt i didnt bleed use ky jelly i wish i had cos you are too nervouse to get wet and thats why it hurts.it still does now if i am too dry after 20 odd yrs use contraception of course too.it get better as you relax
2007-03-23 06:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that it's different for everyone...You'll probably bleed a little bit...It most likely wont hurt...but you will feel like you're being stretched (which you are)...The best advice I can give is: Make sure that the first time you have sex, it is with your life long partner (i.e. Husband/Wife) Make sure that they go gently the first time...Remember, the first time is all about exploring each others body...Don't expect to know what to do and dont expect to be a pro at it...It's something that takes time...Hope this helps!
2007-03-23 13:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by emeia04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts the first time and the bigger he is the more it hurts. And yes you will bleed afterwards, but it's kinda like a period. No it doesn't just slip right in. If you are a virgin then you will be very very very tight inside.
2007-03-23 13:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Punkd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually hurts the first time... I didn't bleed, but some girls do. And it's not gonna slide right in.. unless you use A LOT of lube, and then it still probably won't... But don't let that first time ruin the rest of your sex life, it gets waayyyy better.
2007-03-23 13:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's done enough foreplay, it should slide right in. You might bleed a little.
2007-03-23 13:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your Mother.........
2007-03-23 13:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋