Why do women always reject overweight men?

Question

I'm about 6' and 260 lbs. I even get rejected by women who weigh around 200 lbs. plus. Why are bigger girls so shallow too?

Answer 1

i don't know why chubby girls reject chubby guys or skinny girls for that matter everybody is just the same.If i can have a good with a skinny or chubby guy then I'll talk to them. no matter what it turns out to be.

Answer 2

Not all women reject overweight men. Maybe your approach needs some work, I'm not trying to be mean, but maybe your wardrobe could use an improvement or your hygiene isn't the greatest. It could be any number of random factors that may or may not get you a date with a woman. Just keep trying, but don't just ask anyone because you're desperate, women don't like that either. Make sure you're as appealing as you can be, get a haircut, buy some new shoes, women love men that take care of themselves even if they are a little overweight. Check your negativity and smile! In the mean time if your weight is what you think is the ONLY thing holding you back, go on a calorie reduced diet and get some exercise. You'll find someone.

Answer 3

Some of us are afraid of having 260 lbs. on top of our bodies.
If we take the top position, finding it and getting it in can be a chore in itself.
Sorry if this answer is too forward or you think it is incorrect, but you asked us why we reject overweight men.
I prefer a man who is 6' and about 175 to 185.
Try losing around 80 lbs. and you will see it makes a difference.

Answer 4

Well, let's see. For one thing, women are shallow as well. Another thing - women are inevitably attracted to confidence. If you act like you are attractive, plenty of women will also find you attractive. Finally, you wrote "I EVEN get rejected by bigger women." Maybe I'm misinterpreting, but it sounds like you're shocked that a 200 lb woman would reject you - and that you're settling. Maybe they can sense that you feel like you're settling - WHY would they go out with someone who only wants them as a last resort?

Answer 5

Maybe you are looking at the wrong women in the wrong places. My BF is 5'11 and 250. I am 5'5 139 and a size 6 (muscular build). I don't mind big guys as long as they have a great personality and are somewhat active (no couch potatoes). I am sure the right person is out there for you. Try dating sites cupid.com or something. Just get out there and live life and I am sure you will find someone :) Don't give up hope!

Answer 6

Insecure Shy Quiet Sweet S/uts Whore$ B!tches You get the Idea You have or be nice and share an interest in what they do Try a sweet girl, not some sleaze or some overweight girl

Answer 7

Physical attraction, while individualized, is based on the same things regardless of weight. So, if a woman is attracted to a certain body type, she's likely to continue to be attracted to that body type even if she puts on a lot of weight.

Now, I'm sure there are people out there who are physically attracted to the overweight, but statistically, I believe an individual is more likely to be attracted to a fit individual. If it were otherwise, our fashion models and Hollywood superstars would look very very different.

Answer 8

Actually, more guys don't like chubby girls than girls who don't like chubby guys. Plus, if it really bothers you, you definately can work on your physical situation. It is not easy by any means to loose a large amount of weight if that is in fact what you wanna do but if you work on you and find great things about you now, not only will someone find something great about you but you will also have the motiovation to do what it takes to take care of losin' the weight! Don't loose hope.

Answer 9

Big guys can get women all day long. I'm not big, but most women don't care what a man looks like. They do and you can improve your looks with grooming, but if your persistent in the right ways, any man can have any woman.

Just step your game up. And quit giving up so easy or going so quick.

Answer 10

sorry to hear youve been rejected but i definitely dont think all women would reject a big guy, im a big girl and i like big guys, i wouldnt wanna be with someone smaller than me, im actually surprised you would say big girls are shallow, maybe this is about something other than your size, how do you approach women? i just think maybe you should work on your game a little bit, i dont think you being rejected is about your size.

Answer 11

you are going after the wrong women, i am overweight, about six feet, 250 and women love men. they feel safe and comfortable. big girls are shallow because they are unhappy with themselves so they take it out on everyone. maybe you need to work what you go at 250 lbs. all those rude messages must be from skinny people, they are rude because they are hungry, maybe starving.